hivvuvoid Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 Well guys dont even know where to start... for the last few months my life has been like a rollercoaster. In this forum i've shared my awful experience. you can search for "12 year gone in seconds", if you want to know more. I will try to resume it... My GF had (or still have GIGS) we had a relationship of 12 years and we have a daughter. I'm 29 Years old and she has 26. Well... after break up it was a difficult time to take care of different things while still living in the same house and with my beautiful child. someday i lost my patient and told her to go away, she left the house for 3/4 days, and then all of the sudden she came back, she had the keys. at first i didnt tought about what she was doing... she started to get some attention from me, really jealous about other girls and she started to want to have sex with me.. and boy... it was good! fastforwarding, a week passed, we had great time and in one night she said that she loved me... and i only told her that i like her. next week i saw her receiving text from the other guy, i snapped! and she told me that told the guy to leave. if i didnt confront her with this i would never know that info. the next day, while on work, she text me saying that she love me, what to make me happy.. all to kind for me. so far so good, right? no! days passed, and after that text she started to go cold on me. current situation. she talks to me, no problem in there. she has been with me, but she doesnt tell me her feelings. she even doesnt say that se cares about me. and if i do that to her... she reacts strangely. i've confronted her and she said that this situation made her go cold. she said only this, like the fault was mine. maybe im looking some comfort, security, i dont know. what i do know, is that i love her, i believe this is a love proof to our relation, hard one, but a good proof. i dont know what to think... one week she is all to kind the other she goes cold and talks to me like everything is fine. talking about holidays and such. it looks that she wants to be with me, but doesnt sound that she loves me Link to post Share on other sites
Gemini_jo Posted August 2, 2016 Share Posted August 2, 2016 If she is going cold on you I think there might be another guy in the picture here. What do you think the chances of that are? Link to post Share on other sites
Densel Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 How long did you both broke up before she came back? Link to post Share on other sites
kztar Posted August 5, 2016 Share Posted August 5, 2016 My ex is also back after his GIGS. I am having an extremely hard time dealing with this. Sometimes I wish he stood with his GIGS forever. It is not an easy journey. Link to post Share on other sites
Crusnik Posted August 6, 2016 Share Posted August 6, 2016 My ex is also back after his GIGS. I am having an extremely hard time dealing with this. Sometimes I wish he stood with his GIGS forever. It is not an easy journey. I've been there and didn't worked for me in the end... 11years down the drain. You really have to be strong, somehow find a way to get over it, dont let those thoughts of him with another women get in your head... i was not able to back then...sometimes i felt disgusted when she tried to get intimate... it took me around 6 months to finally put that behind unfortunately it was right when it all blew up forever! She went back to GIGS, a month later she texted me..saying she just got married... I texted back with a I wish you all the best! Well she got divorced not 2 years later and even tried to get back with me... By that time i was with the girl of my dreams, unfortunately that also ended recently... but thats another history Stay Strong!! Best of Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted August 6, 2016 Share Posted August 6, 2016 There is another man in the picture. Check the phone bill. You are nothing more than a plan B at this point. The taste of breadcrumbs won't sustain you for long. Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted August 6, 2016 Share Posted August 6, 2016 The guy she was texting was her choice and you were the back up. Now that you busted her, yeah she's going to give you the cold shoulder because her heart isn't in it. If it's me I tell her to move out and you move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Cephalopod Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 What is GIGS? Link to post Share on other sites
doyathinkso Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 GIGS = Grass Is Greener Syndrome Link to post Share on other sites
Cephalopod Posted August 16, 2016 Share Posted August 16, 2016 GIGS = Grass Is Greener Syndrome Oh. Thank you. Link to post Share on other sites
DramaInPajamas Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 I think GIGS is garbage. I dont think it exists. No one who really wants to be with you leaves on a whim. It isnt thinking the grass is greener, they just outgrew you or didnt want you and when they come back it is because it is easier to hit up an ex than someone else. Link to post Share on other sites
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