lovehurts05 Posted June 30, 2005 Share Posted June 30, 2005 A situation why I was dumped. My boyfriend of 8 yrs (off and on) met a girl, while he was in another state, knew her for only about 3 weeks, gave me the news he proposed to her to marry him (he will be deployed to war next month) they are already getting married this weekend. This is the main reason we broke up, which sucks. How many of you think this marriage is going to work out? I honestly think he is making a big mistake getting married to someone in such a short time, and right before being deployed, I am not sure it will last. Anyone agree? Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted June 30, 2005 Share Posted June 30, 2005 Chances that it will work, don't seem too great. In all likelihood he is completely infatuated with her. In that way he will not see the less attractive sides to her. Not to mention he will have no actual experience of living together with her, and to top it off he is being deployed soon for quite a while. But try not to think of it, lovehurts05. Your relationship with him is over, and if the two of you don't have any commitments (children, mortgage), the best thing you can do, is to heal from this relationship and move on. It will be hard enough, even if you don't think too much about him. Link to post Share on other sites
UltimateZen Posted June 30, 2005 Share Posted June 30, 2005 Don't wait around for him, he obviously didn't wait for you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurts05 Posted June 30, 2005 Author Share Posted June 30, 2005 I know, I just want to see who is the one that made the mistake, Losing someone who was there for him for 8 yrs, or him marrying someone he only knows for a month. I am slowly moving on, it is taking time. Link to post Share on other sites
d'Arthez Posted June 30, 2005 Share Posted June 30, 2005 You already have the answer: he. But right now, because you feel so low, you don't fully realize that yet. It is part of healing process that you will find that out. And realize that fully. Link to post Share on other sites
Author lovehurts05 Posted June 30, 2005 Author Share Posted June 30, 2005 Thanks, I am just so bothered because he is the one happy now and in la la land because he is marrying someone he says is his "soulmate" and I am here down in the dumps. I don't think it seems to phase him how he hurt me , all I ever heard from him was "I'm sorry, but she is the one" that's it! I think he just wanted to get married so he can have that security when he gets deployed. Link to post Share on other sites
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