Head-scratcher of the day

[AngeliqueC]

Soooo...as most of you know, I've been with MM for over 20 years he has never shown any issues with getting his needs met with someone other than his wife. But his every two week hair cut hairdresser of 20 plus years is on vacation for three weeks and he refuse to let anyone else cut his hair because she will know he's seen someone else? Go figure!!

[Chica80]

20 years? How does that even work? So many questions.....How does it go on? How have you never been caught? Are you in a committed relationship? Why do you stay?

 

No judgements just very curious.

[Shadowburn]

Apparently he is much choosier when it comes to who does his haircut as opposed to who he is having sex with.

 

I hope he treats you like gold, for providing it for 20 years.

[Lady2163]

Soooo...as most of you know, I've been with MM for over 20 years he has never shown any issues with getting his needs met with someone other than his wife. But his every two week hair cut hairdresser of 20 plus years is on vacation for three weeks and he refuse to let anyone else cut his hair because she will know he's seen someone else? Go figure!!

 

I do think you are the record holder here. I'm sure many people have questions for you!

 

I haven't had 20 years with same man, but I did meet my XMM first when I was 19 and we had a two night stand. Fast forward 22 years and we ran into each other again. We then were together 7+ years before I ended things.

[ChickiePops]

Soooo...as most of you know, I've been with MM for over 20 years he has never shown any issues with getting his needs met with someone other than his wife. But his every two week hair cut hairdresser of 20 plus years is on vacation for three weeks and he refuse to let anyone else cut his hair because she will know he's seen someone else? Go figure!!

 

What does one thing have to do with the other? She cuts his hair..something everyone sees. What you do with him is done in dark rooms behind closed curtains. She's not a secret but you are.

[Adoraxx]

Soooo...as most of you know, I've been with MM for over 20 years he has never shown any issues with getting his needs met with someone other than his wife. But his every two week hair cut hairdresser of 20 plus years is on vacation for three weeks and he refuse to let anyone else cut his hair because she will know he's seen someone else? Go figure!!

 

Do you feel like he has something going on with the hairdresser too?

xx

[Poppy47]

I think he is a man who likes long relationships and can't handle the thought of change. A wilting violet perhaps?

 

Poppy.

[LimeBlue]

Soooo...as most of you know, I've been with MM for over 20 years he has never shown any issues with getting his needs met with someone other than his wife. But his every two week hair cut hairdresser of 20 plus years is on vacation for three weeks and he refuse to let anyone else cut his hair because she will know he's seen someone else? Go figure!!

 

Does your MM surname begin with W? If so, we have the same MM.

 

My ex-MM (gosh it is nice to say 'ex' in front of MM now...) also has a hair dresser he has used for 20 odd years or more, and he too refuses to go somewhere else for the exact same excusey reason!

 

In fact, now that I think of it, he used his hair dresser to triangulate me along with his other-OW and his wife.

[anika99]

What does one thing have to do with the other? She cuts his hair..something everyone sees. What you do with him is done in dark rooms behind closed curtains. She's not a secret but you are.

 

I agree with this. He's not refusing to go to another hairstylist because he wants to stay faithful to his current stylist, he's refusing to see another stylist because his current stylist will know if he's had his hair done by someone else. My guess is that if everytime he was unfaithful to his wife he knew that his wife would find out about it he might suddenly find it much easier to curtail his cheating behaviour.