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Should I be upset about our one-time threesome??


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For about six months, me and my wife talked about doing a ONE TIME ONLY MFM threesome. Fast forward it happened earlier today. During the time she was to be penetrated she suddenly starts yelling and talking in Spanish , I haven't heard her speak any type of her native Cuban language in FOUR YEARS (which was the day we FIRST MET) until today After I was done, She allowed him to do anal and throat gag her (for about two minutes) and slap her face, choke her neck till it turned red she even let him ejaculate onto her face and even got it in her hair and nose. I was shocked as hell. I have asked her REPEATEDLY in the past to let me try these things with her but she ALWAYS dismissed it. I HAVE NEVER seen her behave like this, it was as if I wasn't even there and I started to feel left out and got irritated. she was like a wild animal. She even swore in Cuban as well. She has NEVER done or let me do ANY of these things to/with her. They kept going for like an HOUR AND A HALF after I was finished. Hearing that from the kitchen made me cringe.

 

 

I guess what I am asking is how would any of you out there feel if you were in my exact situation.

 

The Guy was a RANDOM man...neither one of us knows him from prior.

 

 

I talked to my wife about this and she said, she didn't want me to think anything different of her and for me to look at her as a respectful lady/wife, but I don't know about that.

I wonder how she would have reacted if I called her out on what she was doing right then and there when it first began??

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Why weren't you in the room with them? This wasn't a MFM, this was you being cuckolded.

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Did you never consider that this would happen when you agreed to a MFM?

Did you not have any "rules" in place prior as to what she would do, what he would do etc. etc.?

 

She seems to have had "an experience".

Whose idea was the threesome in the first place?

Are you into being cuckolded?

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ShatteredLady

Before you carry-on getting yourself more & more bitter & resentful about this please remember that YOU WANTED THIS!!

 

Have the 2 of you talked about this? Does she want to do it again?

 

Having a sexual experience like this is frequently a horrible idea. You might of talked about it for a long time but it sounds like you didn't do any thinking or planning.

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heartfeltlove

Proof, if proof was ever needed, that the reality rarely, if ever, matches the fantasy. You let this happen. You were a willing participant. You cannot harbour resentment and irritation, jealousy and confusion, because you gave her the right to do what she wanted.

It's rare that the first 'threesome' experience, is MFM... usually couples venture into threesomes via FMF... How come it happened this way?

Who proposed this dynamic? Who pushed or suggested this scenario?

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Is it for real?

 

I don't think it is for real and it probably doesn't belong here.

 

Poppy.

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“Things without all remedy should be without regard: what's done is done.”

 

― William Shakespeare, Macbeth

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