Marc878 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Ask yourself this question? If your H came in and said I've found my soulmate and I want a divorce what would you think? The reason I ask is in times like these sometimes the BS will start to look and wonder if they deserved better. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
ShatteredLady Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Why don't you divorce your husband? I'm not being flip. I'm serious. Was this going to be an exit affair in your mind? I think you're asking all the wrong questions. Start with YOUR life. How do you get you happy? Having affairs is never going to help the situation. You might have a horrible marriage that, for some reason, you're too afraid to leave. Now you've painted yourself 'the bad guy'. HONESTLY how was your marriage BEFORE you met the OM? Were you pretty content but now you know there's better out there? If that's the case, stop fooling yourself. New, shiny, different & dangerous is always going to feel different to same old.... This boat has sailed, literally. What do you want? I bet d-day devastated your H. Just because he's still there doesn't mean that he will be long term unless you stop mourning the MM & start putting in the hard work. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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