Jmeti000 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 So Ive been talking to a woman I met online for about a month (we live 4 hours apart). We text very regularly and talk on thr phone as well. A couple weeks ago we decided to meet at a central location but the morning of she became ill. She text me the morning of to let me know and apologized profusely. No big deal, back to our regularly scheduled programming. Earlier this week she asked if I wanted to meet, to which I said yes. We decided on a central location and opted for a picnic in a very well visited and public park. The morning of she text me saying she was leaving but way earlier than she needed to despite knowing I had plans with my sister beforehand (my family lives in the city we were meeting in). I said no worries just text me whe. You get here and I'll cut it short. She text as we had discussed saying she was there (1.5 hrs earlier than our date was set for) so I immediately left and told her I'd be there in 30 mins. We text a litte on the way, told each other what we were wearing, and she said to text her when I arrived so we could find each other. Got to the park, text her, and went walking around to find her. No response, couldn't find her. Tried texting again but no response. Tried to call but it went straight to voicemail. Normally I wouldnt wait around as long as I did but because it was a park, she had to drive a couple hrs to get there, and we had been texting literally 15 minutes before I got there and she said she was there I was kind of worried something may have happened. I tried to call one more time (it rang once then to voicemail), asked park security if they'd seen anything suspicious or if anything had happened (all was good). Soooooo wtf?? She either went to a lot of effort knowing she wasnt going to go (why and what for?), or she drove 2 hrs one way and bailed knowing I was on my way and 15 minutes away...or she was accosted in the park and no one knows. The whole chain of events is just really bizarre, and I still havent heard anything from her. If she bailed or stood me up fine but geeze, given that we were meeting in a park is it to much to ask to let me know your safe? Anyone have an experience like this and what did you do? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
leogirl876 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 No, I haven't encountered this before, but there are some weird situations with OLD. People on OLD are so flaky, men and women!!! It sounds like she acted like she was coming but never actually showed up. I'd never speak to her again, and I also have a rule that I don't try to meet people that live more than an hour away. Link to post Share on other sites
JewelD Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Either she's a catfish and didn't want to reveal herself or she was just yanking your chain the whole time. I mean, two cancelled meetups? Something fishy is up and you're better off leaving her alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Has to be a catfish, or she spot you from a distance and didn't like what she saw. Either way it's really disrespectful, especially since she did that whole act the second time, so I would delete her number and never contact her again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jmeti000 Posted August 8, 2016 Author Share Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) She should have known what I look like. Shes seen the numerous pictures I had online not to mention random images while out hiking or with friends, and shes sent a couple as well so Im not sure how thats works with thr catfish thing. Either way, it should by no means have been a suprise atALL. The whole this is just strange...dating sucks lol Edited August 8, 2016 by Jmeti000 Link to post Share on other sites
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