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should i quit trying to get back with my ex?


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Originally posted by RecordProducer

Asmuch as i understood, you treated her badly and that's why she left you. If you want her back you should:

 

1. Make sure she loves you and wants to give you another chance

2. Deserve another chance

3. make sure you don't lose her this time.

 

Maybe she is the love of your life and you will be together forever and maybe you were not meant to be. Nobody knows that right now. You still have a chance to win her back, it's not over until it's over. ;) Good luck!

 

we both weird bad for each other at the time. we both did things. i'm man enough to step up and admit my wrongs without blaming her at all.

 

i do deserve another chance.

 

if she gave me another chance, i wouldn't.

 

anyway, that all doesn't matter. i'm going with NC, she knows i hung out with some girl tonight, she thinks i got ****ty drunk and stayed at her place, but i came back to my hotel instead. so we will see how she reacts to all that.

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so i am back in sacramento.

 

right when i got home i started doing some "cleaning". i've already gotten 9 bags of stuff i'm tossing of jamie's or stuff she gave me. my friend who does tattoo's said she will give me whatever cover up tattoo i want for free of jamies name on my wrist.

 

by thursday if she has not made an attempt to see what's wrong and show she does care about my feelings, the money she gets a month from me, her insurance, everything will suddenly come to a stop.

 

it's time i focused on my life. it'd be nice for me and her to have a good friendship, but this 100% i give and 1% she gives just ain't going to work.

 

let's hope i can stick to everything i'm feeling now because it feels damn good to rid myself of this anchor.

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Don't wait, just cut her off now. she doesn't deserve any money from you, period. don't call or talk to her unless she comes back begging.

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NightsEcho

I agree with Sanne,

 

Dude you are doing so well, but your emotions are so up and down. You need to cut it off. If she wants back into your life she needs to really prove it. Not just a small gesture. Be prepared for her to start doing sweet things, once you threaten to cut her off. These mean nothing most likely. Just her fear of wanting her cake and eating it to.

 

How was your trip man. Sorry I missed your MSN, been so busy. Just keep your head up.

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