I4givehim Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 I'm divorced!!!! I feel such a relief. Self respect. Happiness. Thank you everyone for all your help, words of wisdom and pep talks you have given me to get me through the worst time of my life. I am looking forward to new beginnings:) 6 Link to post Share on other sites
planning4later Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 I'm divorced!!!! I feel such a relief. Self respect. Happiness. Thank you everyone for all your help, words of wisdom and pep talks you have given me to get me through the worst time of my life. I am looking forward to new beginnings:) Do you believe any of the blame (even 1%) for the failed marriage falls on you? Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 I am looking forward to new beginnings:) Congratulations. Someone here wrote their "second life" began after divorce, couldn't agree more. Glad you're hopeful and optimistic... Mr. Lucky 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author I4givehim Posted August 17, 2016 Author Share Posted August 17, 2016 Do you believe any of the blame (even 1%) for the failed marriage falls on you? We had problems in our marriage and I take responsibility for my half. But I will never take responsibility for his A. He chose to take that road instead of MC. I believe you can work through any problems in a marriage but an A. After an A there is no trust. I'm moving on to bigger and better things Link to post Share on other sites
Clay Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 Good for you. Divorcing my xW (Serial Cheater) was the best thing I ever did for myself. Its been almost ten years and she is still cheating on every guy she has been with. She lives from place to place to place. My life has only gotten better as every year passes. I have remarried since and We are in the process of having our home built. Its a exciting journey when your doing it with someone you can trust. Good luck to you in your journey. Clay 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Angelica21 Posted August 17, 2016 Share Posted August 17, 2016 Do you believe any of the blame (even 1%) for the failed marriage falls on you? Not sure why everyone's immediate, knee-jerk reaction when someone is feeling positive is to say something to focus on the negative. Seriously? Let's get some more info before we knee-jerk, folks. Link to post Share on other sites
benpom Posted August 19, 2016 Share Posted August 19, 2016 We had problems in our marriage and I take responsibility for my half. But I will never take responsibility for his A. He chose to take that road instead of MC. I believe you can work through any problems in a marriage but an A. After an A there is no trust. I'm moving on to bigger and better things MC = marriage counselling? A = affair? Link to post Share on other sites
BlueIris Posted August 19, 2016 Share Posted August 19, 2016 I'm divorced!!!! I feel such a relief. Self respect. Happiness. Thank you everyone for all your help, words of wisdom and pep talks you have given me to get me through the worst time of my life. I am looking forward to new beginnings:) Congratulations! Enjoy. Link to post Share on other sites
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