busylady Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 So as i have posted before my ex and i broke up what is now 9 months. he ended it becuase he didnt want a relationship not sure what he wanted......all that. so i picked myself up and im good now. well anyways hes been a little more intrested in me these days. through this whole breakup he has been the one to iniciate all the contact. i never have and he would randomly call me here and there but it has been more often recently. in the end of may he called me a couple times trying to get me to go to a couple parties with him, then at the begining of june i got a stupid "hey sweetie" text, then later he calls me and wants to know if i want to get something to eat..... then this past week he sent me a stupid text asking if i was going to my beach house again. all i can think of is why the heck does he care. he said he might go this weekend (same beach) with a friend i was like no but hopefully soon. he asked why i wasnt going and i tol him i had to work. anyways i told him on acctident that i was working thrusday and friday night instead of saying friday sat. But i work at the mall so i went there after a test on thrusaday and i ran into him and two of his frineds at the mall. this was the first time i have seen him since christmas time. he came towards me picked me up and hugged me..........we talked in the store for about 30mins and then the two of us walked aroudn the mall together. it went really well.....he would often bring things up abotu the past. i believe one of the reasons he came to hte mall was to try to see me at work beucase he was all like " arent u working tonight? you told me u were working? i could of sworn u said u were working" and im like geez what do u care. anyways yesterday i got a text from him saying "you looked so pretty yesterday" and i told him he looked pretty too being dumb. anyways we talked back and fowrth through textes then i had to get back to work. he was going away this weekend with his buddies to the beach (but just the one around here not even the one he was asking me about) so im thinkin maybe its a good thing cuase it shows he was thinkin of me? But anyways its been 9 months. he broke up wtih me. who really keeps incontact wtih an ex after this long.......and did he have to send that text. when we talked it went very well....i really think he tries to find any excuse to contact me.....i just wonder what hes thinkin after all this Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Sounds like he wants you back. The decision you need to make, is do you want him back? Do you just want to be friends? Do you want him out of your life? Once that decision is made, you should make it clear to him. Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Originally posted by ~Zaira~ Sounds like he wants you back. The decision you need to make, is do you want him back? Do you just want to be friends? Do you want him out of your life? Once that decision is made, you should make it clear to him. Exactly. He definitely wants you back. Think carefully before you take him back. Are you clear about what caused the initial break up? And reasonably confident that you can avoid it this time? Second chances can work very well. Provided you resolve the issues which led to the first break up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author busylady Posted July 4, 2005 Author Share Posted July 4, 2005 so he called me last night around 2 AM. yeah he had been drinking a little bit...........but to be on his way home from the beach with his friend he decided to call me? He was all suprised that i was awake and he was wondering what i was doing. i told him i was up watching a movie and he was like with who and i said no body. he then said "u should of called me i would of loved to watch a movie with u" blah blah. Then he continued to talk about how he woudl of liked to watch a moive with me. He then brought up us going out again. He said thismorning for us to go out and get breakfast but i said no cuase i wanted to sleepin. Then he threw out a couple of other days and i said well if u call me ill go out with u. He said "you know u could call me too" i said well i never know when ur busy he was like im always free after 5. he said u better call me this week or ill be very upset. He as like im so glad u were awake caue i really wanted to talk to u. i told him that he most likely wont remmeber talkin to me but he was like nooo i will casue i really wanted to talk to u. maybe it was just a dumb drunk call.......... Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 OMG woman, he wants you back!!! Make your move before he decides he's lost you forever and moves on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author busylady Posted July 5, 2005 Author Share Posted July 5, 2005 he sent me a text late last night saying happy fourth of july. i replied back. so today i decided i would call him since when he called me last on sunday he was complaining tht i dont call him. he was at work and i really just wantd to leave him a message so that i got credit for calling him but he answered. we talked for alittle bit.......then he had to go cause he didnt want to get introuble for talkin on the phone. he said he would call me later...which probably means end of the week. i just dont know. am i thinkin into it all to much? i did a little bit by callin him u know i havent done that since we broke up. so am i thinkin into it to much, or is there something there? i really dont want to be just friends with him. Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted July 6, 2005 Share Posted July 6, 2005 If you call him, you've made YOUR move Let's hope the silly man gets the idea and make an effort! Link to post Share on other sites
Author busylady Posted July 8, 2005 Author Share Posted July 8, 2005 so he texted me tonight a stupid joke......im not sure why. my friend said to be flirty and fun. i dont know....why would he waste time and send me a joke, never did it before. Link to post Share on other sites
Zaira Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Your friend is right. He's trying really hard (maybe to show you he's changed?). Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by busylady why would he waste time and send me a joke, never did it before. Never mind the why... if you want him back, laugh at his jokes Link to post Share on other sites
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