angel.eyes Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 OM doesn't want you to break up your family because he has no intentions of marrying you. He'll be gone soon. Yup! He contacted you again via FB hoping to have another good time while hubby was at sea, and you sprung the whole I had your baby scenario on him. Now, suddenly, he's so concerned about not breaking up your marriage??? Where was all his selfless concern for your marriage and the well-being of your family when he was eagerly boinking you...without any protection...behind your husband's back? Oh please! You're being very naive if you think he's looking forward to marrying you. Your baby daddy's wheels are spinning overtime thinking of how to extricate himself from this mess without appearing to be the bad guy. He's telling you to stick with your husband because he wants no part of this. He signed up for a fun time when it suited him, not family obligations with someone he can't trust and a squalling baby who will keep him up at night. Wives have husbands to take care of family obligations and colicky babies. He was just a sailor looking for a fun time whenever he came into port, not this. He's gone home (it sounds like to another country?), not to build a home for you, but to avoid dealing with you. If he were actually interested in creating a family with you, he wouldn't be pushing you to stay with your husband! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 Maybe he should have though about that before he dropped his pants, slept with you and didn't bother to use protection............and neither did you. Boy you created a real mess. I wish you luck but do your husband a favor and let him go. Link to post Share on other sites
ExpatInItaly Posted August 28, 2016 Share Posted August 28, 2016 Sorry OP, but you are awfully naive to believe your baby's father wants to be with you. It's pretty clear he doesn't, or he wouldn't be encouraging you to save your marriage. It really is that simple. Get child support established through the court system. His "guarantee" that he won't disappear means jack squat and you are doing yourself and your child a major disservice by blindly believing some man you barely know. At the risk of sounding impolite, you need to take your head out of the clouds and start dealing with reality here. Link to post Share on other sites
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