The Diggles Posted August 30, 2016 Share Posted August 30, 2016 (edited) I'm new to this website and I am currently going through a divorce. I am wanting to touch base with others going through this issue and hope to find people that can relate. Edited August 31, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed personal identifying info 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 Best to begin by telling your story. Welcome to LS... Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted August 31, 2016 Share Posted August 31, 2016 Why divorcing? You want to save the marriage or dump her? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author The Diggles Posted September 1, 2016 Author Share Posted September 1, 2016 There are wrongs on seperate sides. She cheated on me while while I was in Afghanistan and started drinking as a coping mechanism. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author The Diggles Posted September 1, 2016 Author Share Posted September 1, 2016 There is no chance of saving my marriage. She has determined that my habit has finished everything. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author The Diggles Posted September 1, 2016 Author Share Posted September 1, 2016 I have stopped, but I believe she had already made her decision when she moved out while as I sought to admit myself to treatment. She had already moved on emotionally which was an easier path for her. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Lowrider93 Posted September 1, 2016 Share Posted September 1, 2016 What habit did you have that was so bad, let me guess, that's what drove her to drink and cheat. What is your view on the divorce? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author The Diggles Posted September 1, 2016 Author Share Posted September 1, 2016 I chose alcohol, she chose men. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted September 1, 2016 Share Posted September 1, 2016 I have stopped, but I believe she had already made her decision when she moved out while as I sought to admit myself to treatment. She had already moved on emotionally which was an easier path for her. It's a blessing that you can't see yet. With the limited information you've given I can envision your wife as a selfish entitled woman who feels justified in cheating on a deployed husband... absolutely no respect for people in her shoes. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted September 1, 2016 Share Posted September 1, 2016 Welcome to Loveshack. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/530182-fiance-cheated-while-i-deployed will interest you, I think. Take care. Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted September 1, 2016 Share Posted September 1, 2016 I chose alcohol, she chose men. Makes you both wrong but doesn't really offer a commentary on the success of your marriage, many couples have come back from worse. Are you living together? Is she open to counseling? Mr. Lucky 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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