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I recently met this girl, she likes me and wants to be with me. Currently, she is on a vacation with her parents. Hence is rarely on Facebook these days since she went on that vacation so we don't really text (today and yesterday we didn't hear at all)... Should i let her enjoy her vacation and wait for her to come back and then initiate texting (also planning to set up a date when she comes back) or do i text her every 2-3 days with a random text? How should i approach this? Keep in mind that she went through a breakup recently and was heartbroken. She got over him but wants to spend some time alone, we usually text throughout the day but as i said, since she went on that vacation haven't really done much texting.

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Just wait until vacation is over. She's busy and vacations are for getting away from everything and everyone in everyday life. Be sure and text her as soon as she may be back and tell her hope she had a good time and to holler at you.

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I would send her a text every day, just one to keep in touch, but if she indicates she would rather not, then wait until she gets back. Just cutting off completely might seem like you don't care.

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Just wait until vacation is over. She's busy and vacations are for getting away from everything and everyone in everyday life. Be sure and text her as soon as she may be back and tell her hope she had a good time and to holler at you.

I am intending to do that. She puts up pictures here and there, but generally she is not really on chat all the time. Me being all clingy and having self esteem problems i am afraid that she will lose feelings for me in that period when we are not talking. I know i am wrong but i just can't shake that feeling off.

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I recently met this girl, she likes me and wants to be with me. Currently, she is on a vacation with her parents. Hence is rarely on Facebook these days since she went on that vacation so we don't really text (today and yesterday we didn't hear at all)... Should i let her enjoy her vacation and wait for her to come back and then initiate texting (also planning to set up a date when she comes back) or do i text her every 2-3 days with a random text? How should i approach this? Keep in mind that she went through a breakup recently and was heartbroken. She got over him but wants to spend some time alone, we usually text throughout the day but as i said, since she went on that vacation haven't really done much texting.

 

See the part I've bolded. Do that.

Therefore, leave her be on her hols and see if she gets in touch with you while away or when she gets back.

You need to listen to what she has said rather than text and either wait for a reply or be happy when you get a reply - she might only reply because it's easy and she is polite.

 

bear in mind also that even if she does get in touch you could be a sweeping rebound. A break up means loss of daily chatter and contact with someone - if someone else is there to replace that loss then it's kinda nice but it doesn't mean they are into you enough or over the ex enough for it to grow into anything.

 

You haven't met yet so don't put all your eggs in one basket either - she is likely not a great reliable basket having said what she has. She has warned you of this - heed that warning.

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Romantic Gentleman

"Hope you're having a great time on your vacation! Can't wait to hear all about it when you're back" Text her so she know she's on your mind

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