Bliss25 Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 Hello all, I haven't been here in a while. yes thats right, I haven't checked in here in a long time because things were going well with me... Until now. Over the last few months certain things happened with me that I thought never will.. I started finding myself again and getting to know me a bit and am loving it.. I also realized that the last thing I want is a relationship.. And I used to think that I cant be without someone in my life.. lol shows you - you HAVE to get to know who you really are. But like I said earlier. until now. I don't know why this is happening but over the last 2 days I have been thinking about my ex non stop. And I think it is because she is in a new relationship (which I do not want to know about at all) But I realize I am not over her yet and it will still take a lot of time. Until then I will stay single.. Another thing I realized is that whenever I do meet new girls, I have no interest or excitement.. Is this normal ? is this because I am still just not over my ex ? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
TheSwanGirl Posted September 11, 2016 Share Posted September 11, 2016 Hello all, I haven't been here in a while. yes thats right, I haven't checked in here in a long time because things were going well with me... Until now. Over the last few months certain things happened with me that I thought never will.. I started finding myself again and getting to know me a bit and am loving it.. I also realized that the last thing I want is a relationship.. And I used to think that I cant be without someone in my life.. lol shows you - you HAVE to get to know who you really are. But like I said earlier. until now. I don't know why this is happening but over the last 2 days I have been thinking about my ex non stop. And I think it is because she is in a new relationship (which I do not want to know about at all) But I realize I am not over her yet and it will still take a lot of time. Until then I will stay single.. Another thing I realized is that whenever I do meet new girls, I have no interest or excitement.. Is this normal ? is this because I am still just not over my ex ? Hi! Thanks for coming back to tell us how you're feeling. What you feel is VERY normal. We all have setbacks, but you NEED to remind yourself that this is just it: a setback. Nothing else. You're not on square one, besides, if you recently discovered she's in a new relationship, it's obvious you'll feel down because you're not over her yet. Don't force yourself to feel, feeling nothing means you're not ready to date, so don't get frustrated. It will come, believe me. I had a setback on august after seven or eight months and guess what? I'm back on track again. So yeah, it's pretty normal. Keep loving yourself That's how you'll get there. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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