My Ex contacted me after no contact

[Jonson]

My Ex contacted me after no contact

 

 

I was in a good relationship with a girl for 3 years. It was good most of the time we became best friends first and had a strong going on with love also. She told me i was the most romantic guy she has been with and i treated her really nice.

 

She wanted to get married and stuff, but she has 3 kids which is a problem, house is not big enough for us all. Plus her 2 sons are old enough to move out. They give her nothing but grief.

 

So she started a 2nd job about 2 or 3 months ago, and it went downhill quickly. So she was working 7 days a week. Then she started hanging out with a female co woker a lot. So she is like oh Im out with girls this weekend or busy. Kinda ignored me.

 

So we broke up,I stopped calling and gave up on wanting to see her anymore as she had no time for me. So i did not call or see her for over a month, I had no contact with her at all, then outa the blue she texts me and says hi?

 

I replied back and said I'm ok. So she calls a few times and says she still wants to go to a concert with me, as we planned long time ago, its in a month.

 

I ask her is she dating anyone, and she says she has no time for it and no she's not, I don't believe her. So then I find out she is dating someone.

 

So my question is why did she get back in contact with me after no contact?

and why she still wanted to go the concert with me? now that she is dating someone.

[heartbrokenlady]

I'm no expert, but I think they call them breadcrumbs, on here? Just enough to keep you interested but not a real reconciliation.

 

Don't go to the concert. Don't see or contact her.

 

Even if things were good with your relationship, her personal circumstances sound like too much work.