ltomlinson81 Posted July 6, 2005 Share Posted July 6, 2005 My ex-boyfriend and I broke up for the first time after 4 years about a year ago. He had kissed another girl and I found out. We lived together and I moved out. We got back together 3 months later for about 3 months, but it didn't work, so we broke up again. Recently, we began hanging out again. We have slept together a few times. We are starting to hang out with mutual friends together. I like that it is going slow, but I am confused about where we actually stand. I know that women are constantly trying to figure this kind of thing out, but I don't want to ask the cliche questions. I don't think he is interested in dating anyone else. I don't think I am either. Is there a good way to approach this topic without putting labels on our status and it getting too serious? I know men hate to discuss this kind of thing with the girls they see. I am still in love with him and I guess I am trying to figure out if he is still in love with me without going back to the married-type of couple we were before. Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
BLF04 Posted July 6, 2005 Share Posted July 6, 2005 im in a very similar situation. the thing u must figure out is, why did u break up the first time? fix it. do not fall into the same old habits. Link to post Share on other sites
Author ltomlinson81 Posted July 6, 2005 Author Share Posted July 6, 2005 I guess you're right. Figuring out what went wrong and changing it is much more imporatant than defining where we stand... Link to post Share on other sites
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