Author Nyman2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Share Posted September 19, 2016 OK. I get it. But even GOING ON there and signing up is dumpable. That is enough RIGHT THERE to say: "hey, you're disrespecting me. It's over." Is it simple? Yes Is it always easy? No. But it is necessary unless you want to be some mean persons doormat forever. I get it. I do. If you are a nice person who can be talked to about things, you expect the person you are with can be talked to about things too. But often people aren't that considerate. Especially if they think that you'll just take it. she just sub tweeted at me an indirect thing, is she trying to bait me to break no contact ? Link to post Share on other sites
SoThatHappened Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 For the love of all things plastic, get a grip man. You're scary. She's a mess, and you're letting her do these things to you. This is going to sound harsh, but you need to hear it: You have no spine. She's with you because she can walk all over you. You're there to fill in the gaps, when she's not getting her other gaps filled in. For your own well-being, this girl needs to NOT exist to you. Link to post Share on other sites
JewelD Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Uh, is anyone else here really reading this guy's posts: Nyman seems to be the core problem here, thinking he has any right to control what websites this woman can and cannot use (for starters). I noticed that. Seems she was a "hooker" before they dated and he was aware of it. And despite the advice most are giving and the itemized list of all the ways in which she 'abused' him, OP is still grasping at whatever breadcrumbs she happens to toss in his direction. I just don't see the point in him dragging the woman through the mud when she's clearly still got him wrapped around her finger. I'm thinking she considered him a sugar daddy/trick as well, whether he was aware of it or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Scarletwolf Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 Please get away from her asap. It seems she's just using and playing you. Been there. Trust me, those people don't change! They don't love or care for you. You're their "back up plan" someone to go when "everything else fails" and if you don't put a stop to it now you will regret it later. Trust me in this one. You don't wanna end up wasting the best years of your life with a player who, in the end, will leave you brokenhearted. Link to post Share on other sites
SammySammy Posted September 19, 2016 Share Posted September 19, 2016 I noticed that. Seems she was a "hooker" before they dated and he was aware of it. And despite the advice most are giving and the itemized list of all the ways in which she 'abused' him, OP is still grasping at whatever breadcrumbs she happens to toss in his direction. I just don't see the point in him dragging the woman through the mud when she's clearly still got him wrapped around her finger. I'm thinking she considered him a sugar daddy/trick as well, whether he was aware of it or not. Pretty much. I have no sympathy for him. He could have moved on with his life at any time. He chose this. Can't feel sorry for him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nyman2016 Posted September 19, 2016 Author Share Posted September 19, 2016 Please get away from her asap. It seems she's just using and playing you. Been there. Trust me, those people don't change! They don't love or care for you. You're their "back up plan" someone to go when "everything else fails" and if you don't put a stop to it now you will regret it later. Trust me in this one. You don't wanna end up wasting the best years of your life with a player who, in the end, will leave you brokenhearted. I know, one of the biggest reasons aside (from knowing her for so long ) is when I was little I was practilay raped by a woman when I was 9 and have had trouble ever feeling intamite or trusting someone of the opposite sex, Obv I have had sex dozens of times, but like with her it was someone I knew someone that told me they loved me and those feelings of me letting go came onto her because it was someone I trusted, being with her every single day at her house, Its funny tho the guy downstairs from her apt told me that she is not worth it at all, She always rags on me for not driving, and yet this woman has no car, lives with her parents, has no college education and has no friends who are women. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nyman2016 Posted September 20, 2016 Author Share Posted September 20, 2016 (edited) Now she sent me a new text "Are you going to ignore me for an entire month????? " I texted her back, Stop, give me space :laugh: Edited September 20, 2016 by Nyman2016 Link to post Share on other sites
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