hawkclub213 Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 Hey Guys, my ex and I split up about 3 weeks ago. We have been together for a little over 2 years before she slowly started loosing interest in our relationship. We used to be extremely close and madly in love. The last few months of our relationship she became distant, not expressing love for me like she used to. She told me she didnt want to loose me and wanted to work on our friendship... I handled it for a month and then it just became too much. I wanted to be in a relationship and she wanted to be friends, we started butting heads and that's when we mutually decided to breakup. We have had little contact since we broke up. No real conversations, just stupid quick contact over social media. Just the other day I heard from a friend that she has been on social dating sites and apparently she has been on a couple dates with a guy who i was told "makes her really happy." This completely devastated me, left me shattered. (The effed up thing is that the day we decided to breakup, i held her in my arms while she was crying, telling me that she has zero interest in dating and she cant see herself with anyone else.) She texted me the other day, right after i found this out, to tell me that our favorite show was on and gave me her login for a TV App in order to watch it. I responded with "Oh that's right! Thanks for the heads up and the login" What should i do guys. I want to text her and find out if she is really seeing another guy... and if she is, let her know to not contact me because i need time to move on. Clearly she has. Or should I not say anything, let it be and do my best to move on. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 I'd let it be and move on. What she's doing and who she's doing it with are no longer your concern. You are just as single as she is now and free to do whatever you want. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted September 22, 2016 Share Posted September 22, 2016 It's a break-up. Treat it as such. She's is allowed to date and do whatever she wants. If you cannot handle it, then stay NC and remove her from social media. Even if she isn't dating, it would be in your best interest to move on and that means blocking. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author hawkclub213 Posted September 22, 2016 Author Share Posted September 22, 2016 Thanks guys. I've just been a basket of emotions these last few days. Way over thinking things. Link to post Share on other sites
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