Shanisebap Posted September 24, 2016 Share Posted September 24, 2016 If a guy is always busy and you only see him once a week given you are the one going to see him and if you don't message him he doesn't message you and every time he promises to make more time for you he gets even busier would you marry him if your to get married in 2 months? Link to post Share on other sites
sooshi Posted September 24, 2016 Share Posted September 24, 2016 No. This doesn't sound like a relationship, and he doesn't sound like boyfriend material, let alone marriage material. There's no foundation here. Set higher standards for yourself. Take care. 6 Link to post Share on other sites
Lois_Griffin Posted September 24, 2016 Share Posted September 24, 2016 Let me guess - did you ALSO propose to him and buy your own ring? LOL...does he even KNOW he's supposedly engaged? If the guy were any LESS invested, he'd be in a coma. 9 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted September 24, 2016 Share Posted September 24, 2016 Absolutely not. There is one thing I would do.....dump his ass. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted September 25, 2016 Share Posted September 25, 2016 I'd break up with him. 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Methodical Posted September 25, 2016 Share Posted September 25, 2016 (edited) Anytime somebody is questioning whether or not they should get married bc (insert: issue, questionable behavior, lack of interest, incompatibility, etc) the answer is always NO. If you have doubt beforehand, a good rule of thumb, don't do it. Healthy marriages require effort, and in your case, he isn't putting forth much, if any! Edited September 25, 2016 by Methodical 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Osmium13 Posted September 25, 2016 Share Posted September 25, 2016 No. Mainly because I'm a man... and not gay. Sorry, that probably isn't much help 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Mr. Lucky Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 would you marry him Presupposes a yes or no answer when the real question is why you'd even consider it. Is this what love and commitment look like to you ??? Mr. Lucky 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Peach Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 That wouldn't work for me. I want a partner. Once a week wouldn't work for me. Have you. Had any conversations about what you both expect married life to look like? 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 OP, I wouldn't even date him, let alone marry him !! 6 Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 He'll be too busy to show up to the wedding. More importantly, ask yourself why you want to be with a guy who is making zero effort. If you don't contact him, it would be crickets? I would just move on. 7 Link to post Share on other sites
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