ilovecheetos Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 First time poster here. I have feelings for my coworker who is a MW and I'm failing to end it asap. We've worked together for a year and change and got to know each other more than I should have. I even met her husband. Problem is, when I try to distance myself and keep our conversations strictly about work, she tells me I'm acting odd persistently asks why? I always say I'm tired or just hung up on something that I don't want to talk about now. Then she tells me that since my distant change, she misses the friendship. We never did anything outside of work and hardly text or call each other over the phone. Everything we do is only at work. I'm trying to distance myself again but running out of excuses. Should I be honest and tell her the deal? Or would that be no good and a complete waste of time? I'm already searching for a new job because I honestly can't function anymore. I see her everyday and it's not helping at all because my emotions are crazy and I'm weak. Please help. Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted September 26, 2016 Share Posted September 26, 2016 First time poster here. I have feelings for my coworker who is a MW and I'm failing to end it asap. We've worked together for a year and change and got to know each other more than I should have. I even met her husband. Problem is, when I try to distance myself and keep our conversations strictly about work, she tells me I'm acting odd persistently asks why? I always say I'm tired or just hung up on something that I don't want to talk about now. Then she tells me that since my distant change, she misses the friendship. We never did anything outside of work and hardly text or call each other over the phone. Everything we do is only at work. I'm trying to distance myself again but running out of excuses. Should I be honest and tell her the deal? Or would that be no good and a complete waste of time? I'm already searching for a new job because I honestly can't function anymore. I see her everyday and it's not helping at all because my emotions are crazy and I'm weak. Please help. Don't confess any feelings for her, no good can come from that. Simply tell her you feel uncomfortable being that close to a married woman, not the you're saying she is interested in anything inappropriate but you don't feel it's respectful of her or her marriage or husband. That should back her off 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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