Cephalopod Posted October 11, 2016 Share Posted October 11, 2016 I'm living a far better and far happier life than my ex is, so I am probably not qualified to give you an opinion on this, except that you should concentrate on your own happiness rather than dwell on the past; which often means forcing yourself out if your comfort zone. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nox Posted October 21, 2016 Author Share Posted October 21, 2016 I didn't log in for a while, and seeing all of your responses kinda made my day today. I am sorry to hear about all the similar experiences of course, but it's good to know people got through this mess and are now alive and well. Thanks for your confession frigginlost, it is really inspiring. I hope to have something similar happen to me. As for him, I hope to get to a point where I can truly wish him well. Link to post Share on other sites
Bialy Posted October 21, 2016 Share Posted October 21, 2016 As more time passes, I continue to feel at ease and comfortable and some level of peace. I am journaling everyday and having many moments of clarity on my future and what I want. Cheating exes or people who jump into a new relationship after ending one --- these people do not give themselves a bit of time to reflect, digest, and decompress before beginning a new relationship. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
RyanO1991 Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 Sometimes it's hard. Can just picture them having their cosy games of Dungeons and Dragons before they head to bed and grind against each other dressed as Vikings or vampires or whatever it is those people do. I just know I'm the better partner and I'll find someone worthwhile, rather than being part of a couple of cheaters whose lives revolve around catching Pokemon like headlice and sitting in front of the TV watching Japanese cartoons about spiky-haired prats battling giant squids and cookie monsters. Yeah, I think I'm a lot better off. Link to post Share on other sites
Justm3x Posted October 28, 2016 Share Posted October 28, 2016 I feel for you and i know tha feeling well. Same thing happened to me, i knew something wasnt right for 3 months before he went to work overseas. The seven years we spend together werent the easiest, but i loved him and i thought he loved me. When he left to work overseas he became distant and asked him time and time again, is there anyone else.. NO the reply was the same everytime. But he was seeing someone else, i found out in the most cruelest way, i never saw him again. Almost 3 years on and i still think of him everyday, ive not dated or even talked to anyone else since... Link to post Share on other sites
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