Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Not here to discuss my BS I would start a different thread if I wanted to discuss that. You might not be, but there's a lot of decent minded people who pretty quickly thought god how must his wife feel? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Nothing for now... later it may be a different story depending on what questions your child starts asking. The aftermath of an A can ripple for decades. Pitiful you gave your BS a second Dday! I hope she finds the peace she deserves! So much fun when the BS start to show up n these threads. Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 You have talked to all of them? Plus I'm not looking to hookup so don't care. Wouldn't need to talk to a one. What exactly was it you did start this thread for again? For sympathy because your affair is over, sympathy because you are on your own? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Oh my god I believe I already addressed comments similar to this before. Ironically though my BW realizes she was part of the root cause, so there you go. Yes still my choice to cheat but she had her part. Yes I know I hurt my BW, again PAR for the course when you are in an affair. Ironically YOU are the root cause which is why you are here! I don't partake in the whole my spouse made me have an A because of 'fill in the blank.' It takes two to dismantle a M and one to destroy it! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 So much fun when the BS start to show up n these threads. Are you having fun? Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 You might not be, but there's a lot of decent minded people who pretty quickly thought god how must his wife feel? We'll sucks for you folks she does not post then or you could ask her. She is hurt as you would expect and in denial. Why she wants to save things I don't knoiw but forcing a divorce would add insult to injury at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Are you having fun? Was just about to say it's more irony that's sailed way over his head. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Are you having fun? With the folks posting now yes same pattern as years ago. I started a rant because I was hurt sand typical BS want to make it about my BS been there played that game years ago. Like I sad you guys are going to be frustrated with me. Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 With the folks posting now yes same pattern bad years ago. I started a rant because I was hurt sand typical BS want to make it about my BS been there played that game years ago. Like I sad you guys are going to be frustrated with me. Oh it's not just the BS's that are frustrated 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Oh it's not just the BS's that are frustrated We'll sweet Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 We'll sucks for you folks she does not post then or you could ask her. She is hurt as you would expect and in denial. Why she wants to save things I don't knoiw but forcing a divorce would add insult to injury at this point. With the folks posting now yes same pattern as years ago. I started a rant because I was hurt sand typical BS want to make it about my BS been there played that game years ago. Like I sad you guys are going to be frustrated with me. You don't get it do you? It's everyone else that's having the fun. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 If your post had mentioned how bad you feel, and how you were worried sick about the effect on your kids and how you were going to see them when your marriage inevitably ends in divorce, you might have found a warmer set of responses. Just a thought. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 You don't get it do you? It's everyone else that's having the fun. Sure whatever you say there boss. I am seeing the same back and for the saw in 2008 and 2012,. Gets really boring after a few times. At least the first few pages of the thread gave some value. Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Sure whatever you say there boss. I am seeing the same back and for the saw in 2008 and 2012,. Gets really boring after a few times. At least the first few pages of the thread gave some value. Oh as in you got no sympathy then either? I have only been here a few weeks but I wonder is it everyone else that's in the wrong or.....? Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Sure whatever you say there boss. I am seeing the same back and for the saw in 2008 and 2012,. Gets really boring after a few times. At least the first few pages of the thread gave some value. Well what is it you are looking for? A's and what surround them don't change much and neither does the advice why are you surprised with the responses? Have you learned anything from your A? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 If your post had mentioned how bad you feel, and how you were worried sick about the effect on your kids and how you were going to see them when your marriage inevitably ends in divorce, you might have found a warmer set of responses. Just a thought. Lol that was not the purpose of the OP. I would put something like that in the infidelity forum. Hint someone in an affair as long vast I have been has lived two lives for so long that the "normal". Tactics no longer work. Plus I just want to rant as a warning where things end up. Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 Well what is it you are looking for? A's and what surround them don't change much and neither does the advice why are you surprised with the responses? Have you learned anything from your A? Lol that was not the purpose of the OP. I would put something like that in the infidelity forum. Hint someone in an affair as long vast I have been has lived two lives for so long that the "normal". Tactics no longer work. Plus I just want to rant as a warning where things end up. Any right minded person is well aware of where a ten year affair is likely to end up. So tell me "boss", how much of your kids lives have you missed out on by spending time with the OW? How many first moments, parents evenings, football practice? 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Well what is it you are looking for? A's and what surround them don't change much and neither does the advice why are you surprised with the responses? Have you learned anything from your A? I'm not looking for advice, that's funny. Rant that is a warning that no matter how much love you feel in the affair and no matter how long it goes you will get hurt in the end. Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 Any right minded person is well aware of where a ten year affair is likely to end up. So tell me "boss", how much of your kids lives have you missed out on by spending time with the OW? How many first moments, parents evenings, football practice? Try none !!!! Swing and a miss If any right minded folks knew that jack there would be no affairs, let alone stats that show them increasing in number Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 3, 2016 Share Posted October 3, 2016 So all you started this thread for was to warn people not to lead a double life for ten years? Was that it? If so, cheers for the advice, I hadn't realised it was a bad idea but now I do. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author pkn06002 Posted October 3, 2016 Author Share Posted October 3, 2016 So all you started this thread for was to warn people not to lead a double life for ten years? Was that it? If so, cheers for the advice, I hadn't realised it was a bad idea but now I do. It is an easy path so yes that was the goal of the rant. Although there are a few good nuggets of gold I learned something from. I said thanks to those folks already. Link to post Share on other sites
Pete2304 Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 It is an easy path so yes that was the goal of the rant. Although there are a few good nuggets of gold I learned something from. I said thanks to those folks already. An easy path to cheat for ten years? One day, your grown up children will ask you why you cheated on mum while they were growing up. Good luck with that conversation. Thanks for the advice though, it's much appreciated and I'm going to leave this thread alone now because I've got a ton of married women I've been sleeping with for years who I need to phone and explain why we had better end things now. I will even let you post back and call me all the names under the sun if you like and rest assured, I won't bother replying. I've become rather bored with you now, much like it seems your OW has. Goodnight 3 Link to post Share on other sites
wmacbride Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 Good lord!!!!! You folks really need some reading comprehension since I am starting to repeat myself. I don't care that she moved on I expected it and she even told me about times she went out. Why did I expect she would tell me when she finally found someone because that is what she told me she would do! I wanted a heads up to protect myself and the feelings I had for her. Because I KNEW what would happen if it got sprung on me like it eventually did. Oh and more of this crap I have seen over the years about how I should care about other people because I hurt them blah blah blah.... Guess what they can make a thread if they want this is my thread to bitch. Again if you are a BS thinking you can apply the 2x4s to me good luck bring a lunch you are not going to like the results. slow clap... great job showing your true character. you are a big bully who thinks you can trow your weight around and force others to do as you please. it's no wonder your ow moved on, and why your W acts the way she does. You might be able to force the women in your life to kowtow to your demands ( which si why I think you are so ticked at your ex-ow- she dared to move on without letting you know). btw, do you know how foolish it sounds to complain that someone you are n longer in a relationship with didn't give you a heads up when she found someone new? 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Poppy47 Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 Seems like a dummy spit to me. Poppy. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
wmacbride Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 Just so you know this is the second Dday with the same OW. Child knows nothing since we are careful when we discuss and act around the house. You BS crack me up same song and dance from years ago. Andhere we have the usual rationalization from ws" my child doesn't know":laugh: Unless your child is a toddler, he or she knows something is wrong. They might not know what, ut they know. They know daddy has hurt mommy. If you don't believe me, ask over int he infidelity forum about how many adults who's parents cheated and thought they ever knew actually did know, and ask what it did to them. You might be surprised and saddened. I get the feeling you love your child very much and the last ting you want to do is hurt them, but you are doing just that. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
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