Someonesgirl Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 OK I'm new so I'm just going to start. Let me start by saying I didn't mean for any of this to happen. My husband of 15yrs is never home,his job has him gone all the time. I have or had no friends so I was online searching for a friend.just someone I could chat with about anything. I got a friend request from his married guy I figured he was married so we would be just friends. He told he that his wife is mean to him,she won't have sex with him because they lost there 11day old baby and his wife is depressed and never in the mood I told him he could tell me anything so didn't mind hearing about this. I told him has he tried talking to her about what he told me he said yes but that she isn't wanting to hear it. That if it was not for the fact that he loves her and they have 2boys together he would leave her. I began telling him my story. That I do love my husband but that he is mean always downing me and that I stay because I do love him and we have 4 kids together. We been friends for about 3months when we met for the first time not long ago. We just meet up to talk to get to know one another. But it got heated we kissed and well made out abit. I stopped it from going any further because I was nervous about it all. He would have been fine if we would have just had sex but we didn't. He asked if I was going to stay friends and then we talked about maybe becoming friends with benefits and staying married. We are making plans to go out again this time we want to go out to eat and then maybe go to a park and talk. I just want to know if anyone else has been through this Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted October 2, 2016 Share Posted October 2, 2016 Why couldn't you chose a woman as a friend, why did it have to be a man? If you are unhappy in your marriage, get a divorce but it's never okay to cheat. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Someonesgirl Posted October 2, 2016 Author Share Posted October 2, 2016 I wanted a female as a friend becoming friends with him wasn't planned, after no females wanted to friend me I just accepted the friend request from him. I thought it would be normal friendship, I am not a bad person I know people see it differently and that's fine but I like him. What harm could it cause his wife already cheated on him so if he cheats on her it's not like she can be to upset. But it won't come to that not with me. I just like having him as my friend and yes we got close but we won't divorce our wife/husband to be together so how bad can it be no one will ever find out. It's bad I know and I can't help but thank about it, I'm trying to figure it out should I end it with him or not Link to post Share on other sites
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