Author Patrice Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 weather ... I live in NYS. Said "Real cold ain't it...yeah, you love that *****..it's so beautiful ... LOL...duh. What in the heck does he want? Sounds to me like he is pissed that I am still NC and trying to get me to respond, which I won't. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Birdies Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 What a dumbass. He's probably got a poor bruised little ego that you could actually cut him off for good. Glad you will not respond! Why not go a step further and block the number? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 weather ... I live in NYS. Said "Real cold ain't it...yeah, you love that *****..it's so beautiful ... LOL...duh. What in the heck does he want? Sounds to me like he is pissed that I am still NC and trying to get me to respond, which I won't. Fact that he got YOU thinking, is what he wanted/wants. Again, I ask, why haven't you changed your number or blocked him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 I use it for business. I seriously didn't think I would need to block him after the last round. Now, I guess I will! Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 I use it for business. I seriously didn't think I would need to block him after the last round. Now, I guess I will! Really? You 'guess you will'? Ask yourself this, and be honest with yourself - Do you like that he's still fishing? Does it give you an ego boost knowing that after so much time he's still trying to reach out? Because it doesn't mean anything on his end, just an ego feed too. Block him now, for your own sake so he won't be in your head anymore. I bet the only time you think of him now is when he reaches out? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
freengreen Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 you should have texted.."wrong window but please feel free to jump out of it" 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 trying to understand what happened. I pretty much know, he was/is a narcissisist, future faker .. my guess? He probably burned another bridge with another victim, and is still married. Not my business, and not my problem. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 so he makes some snarky comment, and expects me to get my back up, and reply. That opens the door again, best to just let it remain shut at this point. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Why isn't his number blocked? Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 Already answered nevermind....I hope you blocked it like you said you were going to Link to post Share on other sites
freengreen Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 trying to understand what happened. I pretty much know, he was/is a narcissisist, future faker .. my guess? He probably burned another bridge with another victim, and is still married. Not my business, and not my problem. Yeah..3 years is normally what it takes for a harem of APs to get cold on him on a random permutation...he was just testing waters with you.. U did the right thing.. shut the door. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 16, 2016 Author Share Posted December 16, 2016 questioning my honesty? Link to post Share on other sites
LexiCat29 Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 questioning my honesty? I doubt she's questioning your honesty..she probably just didn't see your last post. Well done on the blockage! Link to post Share on other sites
ladydesigner Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 weather ... I live in NYS. Said "Real cold ain't it...yeah, you love that *****..it's so beautiful ... LOL...duh. What in the heck does he want? Sounds to me like he is pissed that I am still NC and trying to get me to respond, which I won't. That's exactly what he is doing. Typical Narcissist move, trying to find their fix. My stbxwh is currently doing this with me 1 Link to post Share on other sites
aileD Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 questioning my honesty? No no no....Lexi is right ...I missed the last post, was looking at content...completely missed the title line that says "he's blocked"...prior to that last i read was "I guess I'll block him" so I was hoping you did. Darn tiny phone and old eyes. Apologies! Link to post Share on other sites
Survivor12 Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 No no no....Lexi is right ...I missed the last post, was looking at content...completely missed the title line that says "he's blocked"...prior to that last i read was "I guess I'll block him" so I was hoping you did. Darn tiny phone and old eyes. Apologies! Yeah, I didn't understand her posts at first either until I realized that the first line is in the title instead of the body of the post. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CommittedToThis Posted December 16, 2016 Share Posted December 16, 2016 I believe in the wonderful world of narcissistic personality disorder this is know as "Hoovering", as in trying to suck you back in, vacuum-style. Next time, if there is one, just don't respond at all. Your response is a shot of supply for this power-loser. Narcissists want any attention at all, good or bad. Just not indifferent. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 17, 2016 Author Share Posted December 17, 2016 friends, and he can move along now! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted December 17, 2016 Author Share Posted December 17, 2016 narcissistic supply and keep crawling back, to see if they can inflame again. Not happening! 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted March 28, 2017 Author Share Posted March 28, 2017 was him AGAIN! Why can't this guy simply leave me alone? Link to post Share on other sites
Minnie09 Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Whoa......what did he want? Or did you hang right up on him? How long have you been broken up? Link to post Share on other sites
Lovetoo Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Well, he kinda sounds like a jerk. Idk if that's the case but if it were my exmm, I think I might kinda like the idea that he thinks of me. If it wasn't so narcissistic in nature. Like genuine true feelings of, I hope she's doing well, hope she's happy, loved. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Patrice Posted March 28, 2017 Author Share Posted March 28, 2017 to know how I am ... said I had to go. Another number to block. Link to post Share on other sites
bluefeather Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Change your number. That will fix it. Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted March 28, 2017 Share Posted March 28, 2017 Changing your number seems like the best option unless there is some way he could just easily get a hold of the new number, then it would be a waste of time. To me though the idea of having to do that just irritates me. Changing my number would be a major hassle and it would piss me off to no end to have to change it because some idiot from 3 years ago has decided to start bugging me again. Why did you even entertain a conversation with him at all? Block, ignore and don't answer calls from numbers you don't know. If you must answer calls from unknown numbers and it's him, then just plainly tell him that you do not want to talk to him and he should leave you alone (and then hang up). Any other response just leaves the door open for him to keep interacting. I mean look what it's done to you. You are talking about it so now he's in your mind again. Just cut him off for good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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