xxoo Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 OK so the OP's husband according to her has said he doesn't like her like that. Made it clear. What do you want him to do at this point? How do you propose he controls some bimbos action and words? Do tell! Her husband classes this woman--the woman the disrespects his wife--as a friend. You use a derogatory word to describe her, but he calls her a friend. He shouldn't be friends with a woman who disrespects his wife. That's what he can control. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Fair Posted October 7, 2016 Share Posted October 7, 2016 If people don't guard their relationships proactively, bad things can happen. Is anyone getting me? Or, is that just too old fashioned? Right. You have to guard your relationships against others, who always look for cracks to give them leverage to pull you apart. It's the nature of the beast, and All successful couples present a definite united front that leaves no one in doubt that they are a team who are loyal to one another first, foremost and always. Trust is earned. This woman's husband just "expects" trust while doing nothing to maintain it. If trust is an expectation with no understanding that it requires work to both earn AND maintain, the trust will fade until the relationship is doomed. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
planning4later Posted October 7, 2016 Share Posted October 7, 2016 It's a double edged sword with you women. The very reason you are attracted to men is because they are desired by other women. (Dont even deny this.) Then you get annoyed when other women ARE attracted to your husband. Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted October 7, 2016 Share Posted October 7, 2016 It's a double edged sword with you women. The very reason you are attracted to men is because they are desired by other women. (Dont even deny this.) Then you get annoyed when other women ARE attracted to your husband. Umm..I'm denying it. I love my fiance because he treats me well, he's smart and funny and I find him attractive. I have literally never been attracted to a man just because other women are attracted to him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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