Sam91 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 My dad had an affair with a woman who was a tennant of our other house that we rent out. He left us (my mother who is ill with MS) then three weeks later left her without even telling her that he was going with me and my brother to another city for a weekend to find himself (he told her Manchester - when we actually went to Liverpool), and my mother went with us (which I doubt that his mistress knows about) and they slept together. He didn't even tell her that she was dumped leaving her to discover on his own: when he came back he insulted her; calling her dirty, ugly, a lowlife, a family of scumbag gypsies, etc. Then two months later they restarted their affair (through text only) and the only reason that he left a second time was because my mother had discovered the texts on his online Phone anc Call account. I think he would have not gone back to her if he had not been discovered that he just wanted to have his cake and eat it too. He then went and has been there for 8 months now. But recently he comes around to our house and he looks desperately unhappy with everything he has done - is this guilt or regret? His mistress we think is controlling with him. He hasn't been in contact with any friends for 8 months, and I organised for me and him to go out together (father and son quality time) and he didn't even turn up. I think she is a very insecure woman as she goes everywhere with him (apart from work; but if she could she probably would). I also thinks she controls his phone, as the only time he can call me is at 12-at night, somtimes 1am in the morning. I've read online at emotionalaffair.com and many people are still looking for Karma for their cheating other halfs who have left them for other people. I've read that 75-90% of relationships that start off as affair fail within five years, but on comments it doesn't seem to be the case - is this true??? Will Karma strike her and him hard? Link to post Share on other sites
Bialy Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 Sadly, some people will never learn from their mistakes. One day, hopefully, he or she will realize how they wronged the innocent people in their lives. Maybe one day you dad will realize how his behavior has affected how you view him and how you aspire to NOT be like him. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
RyanO1991 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 (edited) I don't know if karma exists, but sometimes I like to think that cheaters end up digging their own graves. Edited October 9, 2016 by RyanO1991 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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