ominous123 Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 Just want to preface this by saying I've never really been the type to date multiple women at once. About 3 months ago I met an attractive and fun woman. We started dating immediately. In the first few dates we discussed our long term goals and such. She was upfront and told me she was looking for a career change, and on top of that, was also looking to relocate out of state. She doesn't have a timeline but I understand she won't be in the area for the long term. In the meantime, we have spent just about every weekend together and my feelings have grown a lot for her. I have tried to compartmentalize my feelings since I know about the inevitable move. We haven't really discussed the idea of dating others. I've chosen not to pursue other women knowing this. I'm not sure if she is dating others. There are some fun seasonal events coming up that I'd like to invite her to, but when I bring it up I can tell her attitude shifts a bit and she kind of talks around the idea. Maybe because she knows she can't commit to a timeline that far out? It doesn't upset me terribly but it's just something I've noticed. All in all, I like her and enjoy the time we spend together. Should I bring this up with her, so I don't get hurt, or just ride it out and enjoy it for what it is? Link to post Share on other sites
Toodaloo Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 What is your goal? Do you want someone long term? If so I suggest you get rid and start afresh. While you are with her you are missing out on loads of other women and sounds to me as though you are naturally monogamous. If you are looking short term then that is what you have but it is short term and not going to last. To my mind why bother? Link to post Share on other sites
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