NopeNah Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 So, I own/run several types of business's. One being something that is offered all over my town(100's of options). Anyways, I get a call from one of my managing partners on thursday last week and he says "your ex has an appointment here on Monday afternoon(The day I do my paperwork/banking at this store)". I will be there today at the same time she is. It's not like we're on bad terms at all but, it's just strange to me that she would choose to come to my shop instead of one closer to her house. I won't hide from her( I own the damn place!) but, also don't want to feel pressured to hangout/talk to her while she's there. I am the dumper in this scenario also but, have a small hint of anxiety about her being there. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 Do you have a question? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted October 10, 2016 Author Share Posted October 10, 2016 More of a rant than anything but,I guess the only question would be why? Does she think she'll still get a discount? that I'll comp her service(as i've done in the past)? I know these are questions better said to her. She also called me with 'small talk' about her day last night so, I'm assuming she's trying to soften me up for today. Hmmmm..Today is columbus day so, maybe I'll just take the day off and go play golf instead of going in. Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 Does she think she'll still get a discount? that I'll comp her service(as i've done in the past)? Well, what is your discount policy? Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 Why did you break up? How long ago was the breakup? Since it's passed, what did you end up doing? Playing golf or going in? Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted October 12, 2016 Author Share Posted October 12, 2016 Well, what is your discount policy? I give discounts to friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NopeNah Posted October 12, 2016 Author Share Posted October 12, 2016 Why did you break up? How long ago was the breakup? Since it's passed, what did you end up doing? Playing golf or going in? Why the break up? stress from my work and pending legal trouble on my part. She was offering zero support(not her problems, I understand.)but, was instead making my life more stressful. Breakup was first of August. Only limited contact since(a few drunk texts/calls from me and a few "love and miss you" texts from her..One quick face-to-face a week or so ago. I ended up going in. I actually paid for her service because the breakup was not really her fault. Now she is texting and calling but,understands that I still have my "issues" to work out. Since seeing her, the dreams of her having sex with strangers/women have started again and my sleep patern has suffered. This is why NC is so important when trying to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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