whoareyou Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 I'm 27 years old and met a really attractive 38 year old woman from online. We had a great date and even shared a nice long sensual kiss at the bar. After hanging out for about 4 hours she said she was done for the night and I asked her if she wanted to hang out at my place. She said "I'll be honest with you, you're very ****ing cute and really handsome but I can sense there's an age difference between us." I started to kiss her again and eventually persuaded her to go back to my place. I let her know that I won't judge her or anything. So we get back to my place and start having sex after watching 15 minutes of a movie on Netflix. I had sex with her for about 30 mins and made her cum. She said "You're really good for your age." I texted her the next day and she claims that she's not interested in seeing me anymore. I'm super confused as to why. She complimented me on my looks so much and even said I was great in bed. Any thoughts on how come she doesn't want to see me again? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 You were a one-time plaything 4 Link to post Share on other sites
doyathinkso Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 Silly boy. Go get yourself checked for STD's. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Nowty V Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 Any thoughts on how come she doesn't want to see me again? Depth of character, Ability to hold a conversation, Lack of mutual interests, Ability to socialise with her family and friends, Financial situation. Could be many things, main thing is, she doesn't want to. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Madame_Noire Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 What I want to know is, what film you were watching? Yes, get yourself tested regardless. You sound like you were not the first and you certainly will not be the last. She sounds like an ex friend of mine, who used to pick up men and sleep with them at the drop of a cat and then drop them like a cold bag of sick after the hook-up. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Satu Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 It can't become more because it couldn't have been less. Link to post Share on other sites
pteromom Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 Your age difference doesn't work for her. It was great for one night, but there is a major incompatibility in lifestyle and goals. Let it go... it's not because you weren't good enough, or good looking enough, or anything like that. She just doesn't want a relationship with someone your age. Link to post Share on other sites
RecentChange Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 Could it be more? Well, you might be able to persuade her that you could be an F' buddy. If you are hot, if the chemistry is good, and the sex great (I am not sure that 30 mins and "good for your age" qualifies) she might want a boy toy. I think she has made it very clear she isn't interested in a relationship with you. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Peach Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 I went out with a guy recently with a similar age difference (3 years less). I really felt it. He was a nice guy but I wasn't interested in a relationship with him and he wasn't the type who would have gone for some fun. My advice is to just enjoy it for the night it was... Link to post Share on other sites
oldshirt Posted October 13, 2016 Share Posted October 13, 2016 She complimented me on my looks so much and even said I was great in bed. Any thoughts on how come she doesn't want to see me again? Her husband won't let her go back for seconds. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
40somethingGuy Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 I'm 27 years old and met a really attractive 38 year old woman from online. We had a great date and even shared a nice long sensual kiss at the bar. After hanging out for about 4 hours she said she was done for the night and I asked her if she wanted to hang out at my place. She said "I'll be honest with you, you're very ****ing cute and really handsome but I can sense there's an age difference between us." I started to kiss her again and eventually persuaded her to go back to my place. I let her know that I won't judge her or anything. So we get back to my place and start having sex after watching 15 minutes of a movie on Netflix. I had sex with her for about 30 mins and made her cum. She said "You're really good for your age." I texted her the next day and she claims that she's not interested in seeing me anymore. I'm super confused as to why. She complimented me on my looks so much and even said I was great in bed. Any thoughts on how come she doesn't want to see me again? You texted her the next day and made your feelings clear. You pursued her and she really can't pursue you. Link to post Share on other sites
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