ShatteredLady Posted October 13, 2016 Share Posted October 13, 2016 She's never had a high sex drive with you. Were you her first & only sexual partner? Were you ever very comfortable as a couple (laying around naked, playing etc)? Have you checked all the basics? Does she take any medications? Suffer from depression, has she had a 'SPECIALIST' hormone screening? (That can make a huge difference!) The problem is she needs to want to work with you to identify & work on the problem. Until you know what that problem is it's impossible. People say that she's "checked out" but this might not be true. From what you say she was never really comfortable with her sexuality. Embarrassment could be a cause. Is she a lights out, no play, kind of partner? There are different 'games' to improve sex life. One is doing it everyday for a month, no excuses! This makes sex a habit & more comfortable emotionally. Another is only having sex one day a week but playing (knowing the no sex rule) on the other days...bubble baths together, massage etc. That one is supposed to make you more intimate without the 'fear' of sex. She might want to kiss & cuddle but doesn't want you to get turned-on & it become a fight. As I said, she has to WANT to fix things to play the games. Link to post Share on other sites
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