jbsophie Posted October 14, 2016 Posted October 14, 2016 You seem to genuinely want to understand your wife and desire wisdom for next steps. I love seeing that in a man! It sounds like you had a little bit of a rough start and freely admit that it wasn't what both of you wanted. Is there a chance you can have a "do over"? Start with trust again. Look for what captivated your heart in each other again and put the past behind you. I am not sure when this kiss happened but it sounds like your wife wants to be with you and not that other person. Is she willing to give up that relationship for the sake of your relationship? My advice is to give grace and forgiveness and love each other deeply into the future. You have only been married a few months and there is so much more for you to experience as a married couple. 1
harrybrown Posted October 14, 2016 Posted October 14, 2016 more happened than just a kiss. have her take a polygraph. also have her prove that she has stopped all contact. 1
Just a Guy Posted October 21, 2016 Posted October 21, 2016 Hi folks, I guess when an affair has been going on for six or seven years there is little chance that a reconciliation can take place. There is another big red flag. That is that within nine months of the marriage the wife started her EA. If such a thing can happen during the honeymoon phase of a marriage then the likelihood of recovering from that is minimal. I think the OP would be well served in divorcing his wife and moving on. No point wasting time on something which is half rotten. Sorry but that is how my thoughts go. 2
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