Bufo Posted October 15, 2016 Share Posted October 15, 2016 My son is getting married later today. My friend whose son got married several years ago gave me invaluable advice. Four simple rules to get me through today without embarrassing my wife, son, daughter in law, etc. 1. Show up 2. Pay up 3. Shut up 4. Don't f$$k up I'm not the sharpest tool in the chest, but I think I can follow these rules 4 Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted October 15, 2016 Share Posted October 15, 2016 Congratulations!! Link to post Share on other sites
T-16bullseyeWompRat Posted October 15, 2016 Share Posted October 15, 2016 Yeah, don't pay up. Im not paying a dime for either of my kids weddings. Such a ridiculous waste of money. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jenkins95 Posted October 15, 2016 Share Posted October 15, 2016 Bufo! Congratulations to you, your son and all the family! Hope you all have an amazing day! Link to post Share on other sites
BettyDraper Posted October 16, 2016 Share Posted October 16, 2016 Have a great day! I don't believe that parents need to shut up if they are paying. They don't need to completely take over the wedding but if parents are financing the event, they should certainly have some say about how their money is spent. It's only fair. My parents to force my husband and I to have a big wedding on their dime. It wasn't what we wanted so we eloped to Jamaica. Our wedding and honeymoon was under 7K as a result. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Bufo Posted October 16, 2016 Author Share Posted October 16, 2016 Everything worked out well. We old folks departed shortly after 10:00 letting the kids party for a couple of hours. Of course I got to chauffeur wedding gifts to his house today. Now I'm done. Alive and kicking. Link to post Share on other sites
Doglover0261 Posted October 17, 2016 Share Posted October 17, 2016 Congrats on your son's marriage Link to post Share on other sites
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