cookie411 Posted July 9, 2005 Share Posted July 9, 2005 My bf and i have been dating for 8 months and his ex girlfriend is still in the picture.She calls his house none stop and she tells him continuously that she loves him and really wants to be with him.I am out of town for the summer while he is back home.So we are dependent on the phone for communication these days. But now when we have conversations her name is ALWAYS brought up.I mean i can understand that if something happened involving her he wants to share it with me but when he speaks on her it is like he is wishing he could relive the memories.They had a year long relationship and boy what a relationship that was.(or so i heard)I have spoken to him about how I feel when he brings her name up so for the rest of the night i won't hear her name.But on night 2 she is again being brought up. A couple of days ago we had a little spat over something very minor and we hung up the phone on a bad note.So his ex calls but he misses the call.So he calls back and she is filling his head with a whole bunch of BULLSH*T so he says "out of anger" "i am tired of this do u want to hook up".when he told me of course i was VERY angry and VERY upset.Then i was thinking it just so happened to be her who called and no one else?That was way to odd for me. Please someone tell me are his feelings rising back to the surface for her?Or am i just paranoid? Link to post Share on other sites
Dookie_Dont Posted July 10, 2005 Share Posted July 10, 2005 I would so leave that, he talks about his ex all the time. Forget that crap, you don't need that man. You can surely go find you somebody else who won't talk about their ex's and appreciate you. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted July 10, 2005 Share Posted July 10, 2005 I did pretty much the same thing to my BF. My ex-BF is chasing after me and I told my BF about it. When he asks me I can't wait to tell him how crazy he still is about me. It's being done out of insecurity. If she meant anything to him he would've been with her (she wants him, right?) or he just wouldn't have talked about her. He enjoys your jealousy and when you tell him to not mention her name, you're trying to ruin his fun. Ask him about her, tell him you feel sorry for her because she loves him and doesn't have him and say only nice things about her. That's how my BF reacted to my bragging. But at the end he gave himself up that he was jealous of him because he finally said he didn't want to hear his name and called him all kinds of bad names for no reason. Link to post Share on other sites
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