Author muggins Posted October 22, 2016 Author Share Posted October 22, 2016 I don't get why ppl make such a huge deal about someone sending x number of texts unless it's s lot of content. Her 10 texts put together isn't even as long as 1/2 of op's op. She just broke her thoughts into several short lines. Excuse her for not being able to express her feelings over a breakup in terse, 5 word text. I actually shortened what she had text me to the highlights. Link to post Share on other sites
Kelley Posted October 22, 2016 Share Posted October 22, 2016 She sounds really insecure to me and is looking for some reassurance. If you are happy to give her that reassurance go for it, but you will have to continue to do that through the rest of your relationship. It's sounds like she has a real issue with the age difference, again reassurance and more reassurance. If I'm honest I would move on, I personally wouldn't want to be with someone with no confidence in themselves, she needs some more self worth. She should be thinking I have a great guy here, I love him, so what he is younger, lets enjoy the now we are happy. I would seriously think about what you want, and if this relationship can give you that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author muggins Posted October 22, 2016 Author Share Posted October 22, 2016 She has initiated contact everyday since we broke up. Asking how I was telling me she misses me ect. She is so damn confusing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author muggins Posted October 23, 2016 Author Share Posted October 23, 2016 UPDATE..... so she's been texting me again. Saying how sad she was, I told her to watch a certain tv show she said it would just remind her of me and make her sadder. Told me her parents were upset and said they what's age matter such. Said her weekend sucked without me. Said she wished I was there so she could give me a hug. Guessing she's just game playing. It feels weird now. Not sure I would want to get back with her now. Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 UPDATE..... so she's been texting me again. Saying how sad she was, I told her to watch a certain tv show she said it would just remind her of me and make her sadder. Told me her parents were upset and said they what's age matter such. Said her weekend sucked without me. Said she wished I was there so she could give me a hug. Guessing she's just game playing. It feels weird now. Not sure I would want to get back with her now. Have you asked her why she won't leave you alone? Or to stop texting you? Link to post Share on other sites
Author muggins Posted October 24, 2016 Author Share Posted October 24, 2016 Have you asked her why she won't leave you alone? Or to stop texting you? I'll ask her next time. I'm still really confused Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 Quit being a doormat. Tell her either to get back together with you or to leave you the hell alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Been Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 She's throwing a line out to you to keep you hooked. This is going to end badly for you. Link to post Share on other sites
noski Posted October 24, 2016 Share Posted October 24, 2016 UPDATE..... so she's been texting me again. Saying how sad she was, I told her to watch a certain tv show she said it would just remind her of me and make her sadder. Told me her parents were upset and said they what's age matter such. Said her weekend sucked without me. Said she wished I was there so she could give me a hug. Guessing she's just game playing. It feels weird now. Not sure I would want to get back with her now. Muggins, I think you need to honestly talk to her and ask her what she really wants .She made her decision ,she needs to live with it .If this is really what she wants,then tell her to express those feelings to someone else ,everyone else but you because you do no need to hear about it . Looks like she is conflicted between heart and reason .Well whatever it is ,it's not going in your favor ,so yes ,do talk to her about it and set some boundaries while you can. Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 I said maybe one day and I think that's about it. When you said "maybe one day" (you want kids) that's what ended it for her, she'll be unable to give you children, so you're likely to leave her. You proved to her in those 3 words, that you were never serious about a future with her. Link to post Share on other sites
ilovemefirst Posted October 25, 2016 Share Posted October 25, 2016 I would just give her some space, dont entertain her breadcrumbs. Has she ever brought up the age difference before? Link to post Share on other sites
Author muggins Posted October 25, 2016 Author Share Posted October 25, 2016 I would just give her some space, dont entertain her breadcrumbs. Has she ever brought up the age difference before? We've talked about it but it's never been an issue. We just really get on well regardless of the difference. She mentioned the kid thing before and sounded like she was ending things then, so I said if that's how you feel ok, let me know if you change your mind. At which point she did a complete U-turn and said you can't be giving up this easy! WTF? Link to post Share on other sites
Author muggins Posted October 26, 2016 Author Share Posted October 26, 2016 So it's taken me a week to be honest with myself about this but I've just burst out in tears. I'm really ****ing hurting. I think I am in love with this girl and could really use some help Link to post Share on other sites
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