BluesPower Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 (edited) Listen you are missing the point... 1) There is nothing wrong with being a SAHD or a SAHM. Nothing at all. 2) OP made the point that they are slowly falling behind on bills and debts. 3) She wants him to work, FOR THE NEEDED MONEY. 4) He has not had a job for 4 years and she wants him to get one. 5) If he is doing all the house work then they can share it. 6) If your wife wants you working because you need the money and you don't, you are a bum. If you disagree fine, but I think my logic is sound... Edited November 2, 2016 by BluesPower 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BluesPower Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 And just so you know, (Sorry ladies no offense), I can cook better than most women, I can clean house as good as anyone, better than most, and I can rebuild an engine. Just saying... Link to post Share on other sites
DKT3 Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 So getting involved with a guy is going to do what? Will he sleep with her then give her husband a job? Irrelevant Link to post Share on other sites
BluesPower Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 But DKT3, it is one of the reasons that she says she is unhappy, so IMHO she needs to solve that problem or get a divorce. No reason is valid for having an affair. But is his lack of employment is causing problems in the marriage, I think she should address it. What do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Noirek Posted November 2, 2016 Share Posted November 2, 2016 But DKT3, it is one of the reasons that she says she is unhappy, so IMHO she needs to solve that problem or get a divorce. No reason is valid for having an affair. But is his lack of employment is causing problems in the marriage, I think she should address it. What do you think? I would say that her having an EA is probably causing more problems. And also her greed. she complains it has been four years and why wait and see if there is change if she now gives him an ultimatium. Really she just wants him to mind the babies while she has her fun with this dude. It wasn't four years. By her own admission he looked for work. And then he decided he likes being home. Maybe he saw they actually, at a lower lifestyle, could survive on one income, or maybe the rejections, failed second business, got to his self esteem. How supportive of him was she truly? This seems to be a lot about poor her and her loser husband. And how could she give up this chance at strange with this other guy? She wants an affair. Its as clear as day. And she wants to justify it. That means any and all rants against her husband are suspect. She had a kid while he was unemployed! People who are concerned about their finances like she is pretending to be don't do that. Really, if this wasn't so clear she wants her cake and to eat it too I'd be more inclined to believe her marriage was in shambles because of her husband. But I would say any marital unhappiness and miscommunication that happened before this more than likely existed mutually. Especially with the glossing over of details and the pretending at the beginning that she was actually concernes about money. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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