ECarlson Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Does anyone know any good messages that can be copy and pasted and sent to any profiles? A couple of reasons I ask 1. I've been on OkCupid for 3 years now. Crafting personalized messages for different profiles have yeilded absolutely no results. I've sent out so many of these messages over the years, and hardly ever get replies. I feel angry because I feel like reading through profiles and sending nice messages only to get nothing in return is a complete waste of my time. If I'm going to get nothing for my efforts, then I should at least be putting in no effort in the first place. 2. I'm just horrible at starting conversations in the first place. I have trouble making these personalized messages, and I feel all of the ones I've sent weren't good enough to illicit a response from anyone. So I ask, what's a good message that can be sent to anyone but still generate a response? Link to post Share on other sites
Nightwriter Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Are you writing essays? Just one or two sentences is enough to start a conversation. If you can say something humorous without being insulting, all the better. They'll look at your pictures anyway and decide if they want to reply. I wouldn't send a generic message. Any woman with half a wit will figure it out, especially if you accidentally pasted the name of a previous profile. Also, if you're feeling angry, maybe take a break from dating and hang out with your friends and family. Women want to date positive people. Link to post Share on other sites
Herbalist Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 Pick one thing from each profile and write one friendly sentence commenting on it. Boom send and done. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
normal person Posted November 3, 2016 Share Posted November 3, 2016 I know this isn't the answer you're looking for, but if you're not getting the results you want with personalized messages, writing generic copy/paste ones aren't going to do you any more favors. Those are instant deletes from most people. Try improving your profile, pictures, life, etc. If you can't crack it, maybe OLD isn't the best option for you. Stick to in person encounters to save yourself the frustration. Best of luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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