Sam111 Posted November 9, 2016 Share Posted November 9, 2016 Sad, wierd! This is about an old ex we dated for 3 years then broke up 8 years ago and he got married before marriage he asked me to remain in contact only on FB over a year ago I hear of his divorce after the wife cheated he is now a single dad he contacted me after he divorced asking me to visit him I said I will try and I was trying to postpone it so he gets time to heal alone then a take the chance and I call him saying I will come to visit can he still host me he says sure but once I arrive things r totally different he is fighting full custody he lost his job has financial issues and totally stressed however he gets a way out by his parents who get him a job close to where I live now just waiting the custody case as the ex cheating wife is also horrible mom! Kid is 5 we get along great I got along with the family great but as soon as I came he starts asking me what am expecting he ignores me very cold defensive and aggressive even after he signed the job when I asked him for second chance he said he never ever want it he only thinks we r friends and never want to talk about that and he is very rude and aggressive I tried to be friendly he is still rude and distant why? We were never "friends" and am sure that wasn't the case when he first messaged me now I think he is even talking to someone and he doesn't see me its as if we r room mates doesn't even try sex I want to get him to see me again I was waiting for this for so long can't believe it happened now am with him same house and like that I am losing my mind! Did he ever want me? Is he just scared so he is being more cold and distant? What can I do? I can't stay here for much longer like that but I want him Link to post Share on other sites
l8estnews Posted November 10, 2016 Share Posted November 10, 2016 Based on what I have understood in your post, he's basically not interested in you for a relationship. So what is your concern? That's pretty clear to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sam111 Posted November 13, 2016 Author Share Posted November 13, 2016 Is it normal to run to me after his breakup ask me to fly 15 hours then doesn't even wanna talk to me ? And acts aggressive and doesn't even wanna talk about it? That's my concern why did he ask me here and what changed him to not wan a relation or talk about it and if he wants to be friend why being a Freddie and ignoring? Do u think that's normal? Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted November 13, 2016 Share Posted November 13, 2016 Stay out of rebound relationships!!!!!!' Link to post Share on other sites
lonewalker Posted November 19, 2016 Share Posted November 19, 2016 he is having emotional issues now. dont think u should stay Link to post Share on other sites
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