sunflwer625 Posted July 12, 2005 Share Posted July 12, 2005 I just have a question would anyone go back to this? Here's the situatiopn-- The two met in high school. When he decided to go to school and room with another guy she pressured him into getting married-- basically threw a fit-- so he decided that he would go ahead and marry her. He felt that marrying her was less of a threat than losing her. Well there marriage was good for the first 5 years. They went through the typical stuff-- she wanted kids-- he wanted to wait. He decided to have kids. But even by this time she was already a little less giving in the bedroom. They managed to have two children. After this he stated that the relationship went bad. He began to feel "trapped" (that's where the reference comes from) He stayed with her-- even through her consistent yelling and screaming (hea was very passive where she was the dominating one). He wanted to make it work. Well 14 years later and after all this heart ache with arguing, no intimacy, and everything else you can imagine she decided to tell him it was over and to leave. The divorce made things even nastier. He found out that she was indeed a lesbian (he had seen some signs but never wanted to believe them). The wifes got even worse. She threatened to turn him in for rape because she was being intimate and he would try to touch her-- this in effect would jeopardize his job in the health field. Then over a Christmas break she would not let him visit with his kids because she said she was worried that he would do something to their kids. Well things eventually calmed down some-- she eventually had the girlfirend move in with her. Well over the last six months she has sent a letter and made some phone calls saying how upset she is-- for example her last phone call she was crying because she couldn't believe that they both had to take their kids on seperate vacations. Just anything!! I was just basically wondering if most or any guy would go back to something like this-- even if she said things would be better. I can't imagine going back into something that was so unpleasant-- people don't usually change you have to accept them for who they are or just move on. Now I'm not saying someone can't change, but it takes more than just saying you will. Let me know what you think-- would most go back? Sorry so long!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author sunflwer625 Posted July 12, 2005 Author Share Posted July 12, 2005 There is a sentence that states that she was "being intimate and he was trying to touch her" well I meant to say that she wouldn't be intimate and he was trying to touch her to get he interested-- hence she felt like he was "raping" her. Sorry for the typo.... Link to post Share on other sites
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