Ex throws new girl in my face

[Samam]

So I was in a LDR that went badly really fast. We broke up and got back together mainly because I suspected him of cheating and he would put me down and make me seem like I wasn't good enough for him. Not even a full month ago, I broke up with him & a week and half later (maybe) he called me to tell me that he had sex with a girl with big tits and a nice ass.. that he liked a like & wants to date. It's weird because I don't want him anymore but I hate him so much.

- I was always a good girlfriend to him when he treated me like ****. I've been acting like I don't care, but I recently saw a picture of her & she really does have a better body than me & that's something he would always complain about even though I have a nice one.

- I've cut off all communicaton with him and have been acting like I don't care, but he was my first everything and it hurts like hell. I'm away from home so I don't have anyone to really turn to except via phone. I just feel so empty and thrown away. I loved him with all of my heart so I don't understand how he could do something like this to me.

- people give me compliments and what not, but this whole thing totally killed a lot of my confidence & I can't understand what is wrong with me and why wasn't I good enough. I haven't had an appetite and my stomach just turns all day.

-has anyone been through a similar situation or have any advice at all? I am so hurt & it would be appreciated

[l8estnews]

Feelings come and go. This guy is a jackass, and that won't go easily. Since you were in a LDR, No Contact will make it easier for you.

 

Just stay there religiously, and you'll have no issues.

[Jersey born raised]

Your ex: pure loservile. Be nice if he matured more then a kindergardener. (most of whom have outgrown it).

 

His actions only show he views you as out of his league and you are. Christ, he will be doing the same thing at sixth with a paid escort of 20.

[Blastoplast]

This is a boy, not a man.

 

1.) I would never complain, nor have I EVER complained about any of my girlfriend's bodies. I loved them all for who they were, and each body was unique and sexy in their own way. Better for the most part subjective, and in the eye of the beholder. If he were "complaining" about your body, you shouldn't sweat it because you deserve much better than some superficial d-bag.

 

2.) Again, you deserve better -- there's nothing to understand. A real man wouldn't talk down to his woman like that. It's probably tough being away from home, maybe try some networking apps, or get involved in the community you live in some how -- always a great way to meet new people and keep your mind off things.

 

3.) Again, he's a dickbag for judging your body. It sounds like you were the one who really cared in the relationship and he was just along for the ride. Love is a two way street, don't get hung up on some loser.