OLD: The ones that do get responses, but nothing after

[Poe77]

I agree, my latest post about the woman who's judgement was so impeded and soured, that she honestly couldn't believe I was my own age...because she's come across so many liars/cat fish...that she couldn't even believe my age when she asked me a 2nd time.

 

She said if she even gets a WHIF of a suspicion about the person on the other end of the computer, she launches immediately.

 

So obviously her bitterness was impeding her judgement and I even told her that she may want to consider stepping away from online dating since she, too, admitted to being frustrated. She's blinded by the non-organic process of online dating.

 

That is a big issue isn't it? its all non organic faces on some random page you have no real human attachments to these people.I agree if she was that bitter and flighty then your right it was time for her step back. but that's were it gets hard cause everyone wants some one.. like I said I vote for having some common ground to at least work from even on line gaming or forums or something anything to form some sort of connection 1st other wise reg on line dating might as well be the same as shopping for our lauandery soap you pick the one that's most appealing by the label and seams like it would be the best to get the job done well.. I dont know about you but I wouldn't wanna be anyone's tide...anyhoos off to game and prob finish my wash now that I remembered..lol

[Miss Peach]

I don't ghost unless someone gets really obscene but I am generally very straight forward.

 

One thing a lot of men miss is that OLD allows women to do the same. Probably 90% of guys are doing minimum effort. If other guys come about who are putting in more effort or seem to be a better match then I give my limited free time to those men. When I'm on OLD I get asked out for dates by new men about 20 times per week. I can't even fathom trying to see that many men plus see guys I want to see again.

 

I do pretty well on dates with most men so they want to see me again. It's gets challenging to date men a few times plus make time for new guys.

 

So my advice is to either make it really easy an convenient for her and/or make it clear you're a better use of her time than the other guys she's taking to.