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I have the strong urge to make my ex girlfriend jealous and I've been doing so. I know she used to check on my twitter to see what I've been doing. My profile is private but I purposely put a cover picture of a present I gave my current girlfriend and initials in my bio.

 

Two months later, I put my girlfriends initials in my bio. I feel like I'm stuck in this relationship, because my ex girlfriend doesn't seem to give a **** about what I do. I can't blame her.

 

I always crop my girlfriend out of my profile pictures, should I upload one of us together to see how she reacts?

 

I think I've missed my one chance of getting back together, we were broken up for 20/21 months and she was willing to take me back.

 

I don't know what to do anymore to get her attention. She's blocked me on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Whatsapp etc. She does have my sister and cousin on Facebook. She also has my cousin on Instagram. Shall I try and get my cousin to talk to her for me?

 

Please help :(

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Let her go, OP. For real this time.

 

You can't get her attention if she really doesn't want to talk to you. It will hurt, but you are your own worst enemy here.

 

Do not contact your cousin about her. That's just not appropriate. Delete your ex from any and all social media. If you don't, you will stay stuck in this painful place while your ex has already moved on.

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You're acting like a 12 year old. You're disrespecting your current girlfriend and pointlessly taunting your ex.

 

You need to break up with your girlfriend and leave your ex alone.

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Let her go, OP. For real this time.

 

You can't get her attention if she really doesn't want to talk to you. It will hurt, but you are your own worst enemy here.

 

Do not contact your cousin about her. That's just not appropriate. Delete your ex from any and all social media. If you don't, you will stay stuck in this painful place while your ex has already moved on.

 

It's been 10 months since we broke up and I think I've gone about this wrong way, by jumping into a new relationship..

 

I just want her attention and to make her jealous I guess

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You're acting like a 12 year old. You're disrespecting your current girlfriend and pointlessly taunting your ex.

 

You need to break up with your girlfriend and leave your ex alone.

 

But I really wish I didn't feel the way I do, my girlfriend is getting more clingy as it is. I think I want my ex girlfriend back but I'm stuck

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But I really wish I didn't feel the way I do, my girlfriend is getting more clingy as it is. I think I want my ex girlfriend back but I'm stuck

 

The way you're behaving, you don't deserve either of them. Of course your current gf is getting clingy..she suspects that something is off. Dump her, tell the ex you want her back, and if she says no then leave both of these girls alone.

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You are confused she tried first to come back and now you want to and she doesn't want. My friend I even cannot suggest you to wait as it's already more than 21 months. Life has moved on now, but if you really like her and love her and want to be with her I would really want you to read this review of text your ex back program by michael fiore.

 

Before you go ahead I want to be clear on something I am not trying to sell you something just trying to help you so please don't it otherwise.

 

I am telling this because sometimes in life we are forced to take help of specialists even when we don't want too... Read it here

 

https://lovefindsitsway.com/michael-fiore-text-your-ex-back-review-worth-buying-or-not

 

It's been 10 months since we last spoke

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The way you're behaving, you don't deserve either of them. Of course your current gf is getting clingy..she suspects that something is off. Dump her, tell the ex you want her back, and if she says no then leave both of these girls alone.

 

I meant to say dump your gf so she can find someone who does want her instead of being someone's back up plan..she deserves more than that.

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Get YOUR HEAD OUT OF YOUR @55. You are using your GF for the soul purpose to get your ex jealous??, that is so lame. Your GF is a human being, she has feelings....do you not think of others? you have no empathy what so ever..... You are an adult for f sakes, now start acting like one.

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After 10 months your ex doesn't want you back. She may have checked your twitter, etc out of curiosity but she doesn't want you. Definitely break up with the girl you are with now and wait until you can find another girl you really want to be with.

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After 10 months your ex doesn't want you back. She may have checked your twitter, etc out of curiosity but she doesn't want you. Definitely break up with the girl you are with now and wait until you can find another girl you really want to be with.

 

No I meant she used to check it before so I was wondering if she still checked it

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The way you're behaving, you don't deserve either of them. Of course your current gf is getting clingy..she suspects that something is off. Dump her, tell the ex you want her back, and if she says no then leave both of these girls alone.

 

I think you're right, because it's just exhausting being with her and I have never felt so bored. I feel stuck like what have I got myself into and I can't go back to my ex girlfriend either. Any idea on how to get to forgive me and give me one last chance?

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I think you're right, because it's just exhausting being with her and I have never felt so bored. I feel stuck like what have I got myself into and I can't go back to my ex girlfriend either. Any idea on how to get to forgive me and give me one last chance?

 

Dump your girlfriend. Let her find someone who appreciates her. Then ask this question.

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Why do men/women try to rub their relationship in their exs face, by this I mean showing it off? Does this mean they still have feelings towards their ex because they rub it in their face, otherwise if they didn't. They wouldn't do this. What do you think?

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Why do men/women try to rub their relationship in their exs face, by this I mean showing it off? Does this mean they still have feelings towards their ex because they rub it in their face, otherwise if they didn't. They wouldn't do this. What do you think?

 

Egocentric behavior

 

Low Self-Esteem

 

"Though an egocentric tends to be perceived as arrogant and prideful, the root of this issue is often due to low self-esteem. With their seemingly self-centered behavior, this person is trying to compensate for feelings of low self-worth and insecurity. This behavior is often exhibited when egocentrics are in a situation where they feel intimidated or inferior. They may perceive another person as threatening aspects of their ego and, therefore, run to an immediate defense of themselves."

 

 

Exaggeration

 

"Egocentrics develop a superiority complex in order for others to accept them. Egocentrics exaggerate their own abilities and achievements in order to gain recognition. In turn, egocentrics will also mock others, making fun of their lack of abilities in order to be perceived as more talented than others."

 

"Those who are egocentric struggle to communicate with others. They do not understand how to read another's body language or emotional state, making it difficult for them to have healthy communication. This also makes it difficult for them to see another person's perspective on an issue and to have understanding of a person's standpoint. Egocentrics only understand their own point of view."

 

 

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Egocentric behavior

 

Low Self-Esteem

 

"Though an egocentric tends to be perceived as arrogant and prideful, the root of this issue is often due to low self-esteem. With their seemingly self-centered behavior, this person is trying to compensate for feelings of low self-worth and insecurity. This behavior is often exhibited when egocentrics are in a situation where they feel intimidated or inferior. They may perceive another person as threatening aspects of their ego and, therefore, run to an immediate defense of themselves."

 

 

Exaggeration

 

"Egocentrics develop a superiority complex in order for others to accept them. Egocentrics exaggerate their own abilities and achievements in order to gain recognition. In turn, egocentrics will also mock others, making fun of their lack of abilities in order to be perceived as more talented than others."

 

"Those who are egocentric struggle to communicate with others. They do not understand how to read another's body language or emotional state, making it difficult for them to have healthy communication. This also makes it difficult for them to see another person's perspective on an issue and to have understanding of a person's standpoint. Egocentrics only understand their own point of view."

 

 

Hope that helps

 

Thanks, it's quite hurtful ?

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Thanks, it's quite hurtful ?

 

Your currently using your current girlfriend, to make your ex- feel jealous.

 

Your exploiting your current girlfriend and its not right.

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Two main reasons.

 

1. She can't achieve enough self esteem with her own human qualities, so she needs to lower other people in order to feel high.

 

2. Maybe you hurt her, and she enjoy some revenge.

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Why do men/women try to rub their relationship in their exs face, by this I mean showing it off? Does this mean they still have feelings towards their ex because they rub it in their face, otherwise if they didn't. They wouldn't do this. What do you think?

 

Sometimes, people are so immature and insensitive. They do this either to hurt you, to show they can replace you or like you've said, to see if this can make you jealous.... and then going back to the part that they just wanted to hurt you.

 

When people do this to me, I hurt. But it also cements my decision to never engage them in an kind of relationship in my life. Thus, taking them out of my life forever.

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Josh,

 

People of both genders are often under the assumption that everything is all about them. Hell, even at times I do and I'm old enough to fart dust! lol.

 

People do it because they want to make some statement that they are able to move on without the ex. They want to get a rise or a reaction out of the target of their derision.

 

Evetyone knows that the best defense against someone doing that is to be completely indifferent. Making someone insignificant is a larger Fyuk YU than actually saying Fyuk YU to someone. You do that by cutting them out completely. Block their avenues of communication to you. If you see them in public you act like they are not there and go about you business.

 

It is not rocket science . It's called letting the Clown Car pass you on it's merry way to Shyteville.

 

Always remember the opposite of love is not hate, it is total indifference. As long as you don't give a visible response or reaction, as much as it may burn your butt, sometimes you just have to fake it until you make it. Half the fun of rubbing it in somebody's face is the self satisfaction of getting a reaction. If you don't give someone that reaction and get to total indifference, then they lose the power to have any impact over any aspect of you life.

 

Again, the goal of being an ex is to reach the point of indifference.

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I don't think you guys get it... The OP is referring to him self.

 

Yes I'm referring to myself, I have a new girlfriend but I think I'm shoving it down my exs throat. I guess it's indifference like other people have been commenting.

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Josh,

 

People of both genders are often under the assumption that everything is all about them. Hell, even at times I do and I'm old enough to fart dust! lol.

 

People do it because they want to make some statement that they are able to move on without the ex. They want to get a rise or a reaction out of the target of their derision.

 

Evetyone knows that the best defense against someone doing that is to be completely indifferent. Making someone insignificant is a larger Fyuk YU than actually saying Fyuk YU to someone. You do that by cutting them out completely. Block their avenues of communication to you. If you see them in public you act like they are not there and go about you business.

 

It is not rocket science . It's called letting the Clown Car pass you on it's merry way to Shyteville.

 

Always remember the opposite of love is not hate, it is total indifference. As long as you don't give a visible response or reaction, as much as it may burn your butt, sometimes you just have to fake it until you make it. Half the fun of rubbing it in somebody's face is the self satisfaction of getting a reaction. If you don't give someone that reaction and get to total indifference, then they lose the power to have any impact over any aspect of you life.

 

Again, the goal of being an ex is to reach the point of indifference.

 

Does that mean their still in love with the ex?

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