Redhead14 Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 (edited) Why do men/women try to rub their relationship in their exs face, by this I mean showing it off? Does this mean they still have feelings towards their ex because they rub it in their face, otherwise if they didn't. They wouldn't do this. What do you think? That's kinda mean and spiteful. I find that to be immature . . . it's an indicator that their self-esteem was damaged by the break up and so to boost their ego, and trying to demonstrate to the world that you really are "worthy" of having a boyfriend. If she thinks that you will think she still has feelings for you and trying to make you jealous to draw you back to her, just realize that the new guy isn't getting a prize and you've dodged a bullet Edited November 12, 2016 by Redhead14 Link to post Share on other sites
Space Ritual Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 Does that mean their still in love with the ex? Well for the most part they do still have a modicum of feelings for them, otherwise they would not put the effort in to rub a new relationship in their faces. But Love? Maybe a few, but in reality the action itself is out of spite. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Josh29 Posted November 12, 2016 Author Share Posted November 12, 2016 That's kinda mean and spiteful. I find that to be immature . . . it's an indicator that their self-esteem was damaged by the break up and so to boost their ego, and trying to demonstrate to the world that you really are "worthy" of having a boyfriend. If she thinks that you will think she still has feelings for you and trying to make you jealous to draw you back to her, just realize that the new guy isn't getting a prize and you've dodged a bullet I guess that's true, I think they just want a reaction from their ex so they can get back in contact. However, I don't they want to initate the contact to look "desperate" as they want them back etc. In fear of rejection, therefore they use the jealousy approach. Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 Does that mean their still in love with the ex? Depends on what you mean by love.? I don't think love is the butterflies or jealously that one feels. Link to post Share on other sites
JessicaKC Posted November 12, 2016 Share Posted November 12, 2016 (edited) Depends on what you mean by love.? I don't think love is the butterflies or jealously that one feels. Maybe, obsessed would be a better word to describe. Edited November 12, 2016 by JessicaKC 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetfish Posted November 14, 2016 Share Posted November 14, 2016 Maybe, obsessed would be a better word to describe. I was wondering when you would see this thread Link to post Share on other sites
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