Author comingalong Posted November 13, 2016 Author Posted November 13, 2016 comingalong, Your wife is a cake-eater pure and simple. Stalling on the divorce is her way of keeping control over you, so don't allow it. Have a meeting with your solicitor/lawyer and ask him/her what your options are and how you can move forward. Good luck x But wouldn't a cake eater try to hold onto both cake and ability to eat it? She knows I'm out living my life, meeting women and doing my thing. She has made zero effort to reach out.
Cephalopod Posted November 15, 2016 Posted November 15, 2016 For someone who says he doesnt like it when people are indecisive, you sure are indecisive. She's not coming back to the marriage. Give it up. Push your lawyer for a unilateral divorce. Force it into court if necessary. Have her subpoenaed. 1
bigman1 Posted November 20, 2016 Posted November 20, 2016 A major part of your story makes no sense. You have been seperated for a year, she's with someone else, she hired a lawyer and you are a signature away and you keep calling this a marriage?! Other than on paper, why do you seem to have so much invested in this? How do you figure remorse on her part somehow makes this salvageable? Either there is more to the story or there is nothing. File and move on. 1
Cephalopod Posted November 21, 2016 Posted November 21, 2016 I'm just thinking maybe this is where she changes her mind? We've been separated for a year and half if I think about it. Why on God's green earth would you want someone like this back? After how cruelly she has treated you? You must value yourself very little to sacrifice your self respect that easily.
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