2.5 years relationship and Cheating

[gozdetak]

I don't want to write a lot of things here cause I am really angry. I've done everything to make him happy. He said that "I'm not satisfied with our relationship", he never loved me as I love him, I always know it. I broke up with him several times, but ALWAYS he begged. And our relationship continued.

 

Last week. He argued with his family, he wasn't feeling good. I was trying to be with him. I bought concert tickets for next month (one of his favorite singers), and he said "you really make me happy" and send some heart emojis, etc. After that day, he never texted me, I texted. Next day, he never texted me. Again. I texted. He acted distant, didn't write (except answering my question). Next day, we didn't write each other. And finally I wrote, I said "don't you wanna see me again?". (I really dont know what was going on). He called me. He could barely speak words. He said that he met a girl on Tinder, and they think they are fall in love with each other (even they don't see each other face to face, and the girl live in another city). So, he thinks that it is not right to talk with two of us, and what happened?

 

 

He left me.

 

2,5 years.

[KimJ1234]

I'm so sorry this has happened. I can imagine you feel really hurt and used.

Especially after the effort you've put into the relationship. The best I can say is make a complete break. Don't beg for him back, keep your head up high and shoulders back even though you feel like crap. He thinks he can get everything he wants without caring about the consequences. Chances are he'll probably do the same thing to her down the road. Get out now before you invest more of your life into him. You can't forgive unless he's truly remorseful and understands how much he's hurt you, which he hasnt. I don't think he cares about forgiveness right now anyway.

So sorry, move on and find a better guy, that'll teach him.

[SeenNotHeard]

This sucks, no doubt about it. Sorry. He has revealed himself and think about this just for a moment he obviously was looking to step out of the relationship because you don't just happen to land on Tinder. It was deliberate, no "accident" Learn from it and grow. You are better than this.

[BuddyX]

Action over Words.

Reread your post and do check marks on Actions and Words. It quite scary on how true light comes out when you pay attention to people's actions.

[elaine567]

I don't want to write a lot of things here cause I am really angry. I've done everything to make him happy. He said that "I'm not satisfied with our relationship", he never loved me as I love him, I always know it. I broke up with him several times, but ALWAYS he begged. And our relationship continued.

Moral of the story.

Never stick around with people who are not all in.

 

YOU cannot MAKE people love you, no matter how good you are to them.

You say you always knew he didn't love you as you loved him. Sorry but you were Plan B whilst he looked around for Plan A.

NO doubt if this doesn't work out, he will be back at your door begging again, but do not be a doormat any longer.

[BaileyB]

I'm sorry you are hurt.

 

In a healthy relationship, you shouldn't have to worry and wonder constantly if you partner is happy and committed to you and the relationship.

 

I would say, this is probably for the best.

[Cephalopod]

Oh to be young and feel love's keen sting....

 

I'm so sorry this happened to you. But remember, if they will cheat on you before marriage, they will cheat on you after marriage. Count yourself lucky you found out what a two-timing wretch he is before you got too serious with him.

 

Block his number and un-friend him from Facebook. Toss him from your life and never speak to him again. You will find a new love who will be twice as good as him.

[oldshirt]

Sometimes we initially feel like we have suffered a great loss.

 

Then after a while we realize that what we have actually gotten rid of is a bag of rocks weighing us down.