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gladiator26

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Hi everyone,

1st thread here.

Let me introduce myself, i am a 26 year old male, doctor by profession in a hospital, married. I love my wife but i am also attracted to a female nurse from our hospital, she works in different department.

I dont want to leave my wife but i also want friendship with that female nurse, she probably single (certainly not married) very beautiful and i like her.

i want to date her, want to travel with her and may be sex but i am not thinking of sex right now, just friendship, coz i like her as i said.

when she meets me face to face (which unfortunately happens very less as our work time differs and we hardly see each other) still when we meet face to face she talks well, in fact i was not looking at her at the beginning but she first came to me talked to me. then i got interest in her,

I added her in my facebook recently and messaged her there. she replied first time after few days. that too 1 word reply as i asked her something about the doctor in her department.

i thought my profile pic is probably not clear so she might not recognized me. so i uploaded a new profile pic in facebook and along with my other friends she also liked my pic, let me tell you i am handsome and good looking and i am not bragging myself but everyone says my friends family and even online friends. i know she also thinks i am good looking.

now the point...is...

when ever we see each other we do talk casually and she keeps smiling while talking to me and so do i, but really dont care to reply my facebook messages, either she doesnt look them or sometimes dont reply even after seeing them.

few days back we talked bit in fb, most of the time i asked and she replied, then said "gn" as if she wants to end the conversation..

i also said gn and didnt reply. next morning i sent gm for first time, she saw it 6 7 hours later as she came online that late and still didnt reply..

yet i messaged her that how was her day, its my night duty tonight with a sad smiley and she replied just with laughing/crying smiley.. thats it...

 

please friends help me, what should i do further or how should i take her response as? is she interested in me or if i can do something so that she may become my friend ? i am from a conservative country and girls are here not very open to guys, may be my married life is repelling her as she just want to be with a single guy ? but i just want a friendship with her at the beginning and i dont want to flirt with her as i think it may also repel her.

please help me

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MidwestUSA

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i dont want that

 

Yet you want to befriend, date, travel with, and have sex with someone else? How is that all going to work out for you?

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I know sex is not right term. I am. Not going to force her.. I would be happy even without sex. But I like her and as I found our we have common interests food travel destinations and so I want to be with her while in or around my work time in hospital. I think I and probabaly she also might like my company. So I am just asking how can I befriend her.. May be I should remove term 'sex'

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She's not answering your messages because she doesn't want to have an affair. She's doing her best to preserve the professional relationship while letting you down easy. Who would want to sign up to being the other woman? Go check out the Other women/other men section here: nothing but a world of pain there.

 

Please respect her decision. She's not interested. From where I sit, that's actually a great, healthy thing for her. You have nothing to offer but confusion and pain.

 

Move on. Or better yet, take your wife to food travel destinations and have sex with her.

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I know sex is not right term. I am. Not going to force her.. I would be happy even without sex. But I like her and as I found our we have common interests food travel destinations and so I want to be with her while in or around my work time in hospital. I think I and probabaly she also might like my company. So I am just asking how can I befriend her.. May be I should remove term 'sex'

 

Friendships develop between people who are interested in each other.

YOU are pushing it here and she is resisting.

Married men do not tend to have "friendships" with single women, it is usually about sex.

She is shutting you down and quite rightly too.

If you are in a "conservative" country I guess being seen as an adulteress will not do her or her career any good.

Please leave her alone.

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VeveCakes

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Shes not interested, thats why she doesnt reply.

 

Why dont you do all those things with your wife?

 

You know, I get hit on a lot by guys with girlfriends and I find it so insulting. A lot of women know they are worth more than being someones side piece.

 

It's an insult to hit on a woman who knows you are married. She probably doesn't think of you the way you think of her.

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Ok i Leave this thread here.. Thank you gentlemen and ladies for ur replies. I don't seek any more advices

 

You need to check out the OW/OM section and read there for awhile!

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