Tara Posted June 19, 1999 Share Posted June 19, 1999 A man I had an affair with a South American man who told me he just wanted to have sex with me and wanted to make sure I understood this. He has a steady girlfriend who he doesn't see too often. He says he doesn't want complications for him and his girlfriend, but that when his girfriend is away and he can get away somewhere alone with me he is interested in sleeping with me. I told him I agreed to this arrangement, but now am thinking I should have made a stronger statement. I want to tell him that this is unfair and not realistic to expect of someone, but I am scared he will just drop me if I do. He is really sexy and all that stuff I have lots of fun with him. He uses condom and was proven negative for AIDS and I also take the pill. Should I tell him this arrangement is not okay and end it? Are Latin American guys different this way? Someone help me decide what to do with him! Tara Link to post Share on other sites
scott Posted July 3, 1999 Share Posted July 3, 1999 If you are happy with sex for sex's sake...have fun. and call me. However, if you are getting emotionally involved then get out now. Link to post Share on other sites
Chalandria Salem Posted July 15, 1999 Share Posted July 15, 1999 Hey, I have been in a situation like this before. I wasn't having sex with the guy. But I was fooling around with him big time. Neither one of us has a g/f or me a b/f. But he didn't want to go out with me. Just fool around. It was very fun. But you have to get out of the 'relationship' before you get really emotionally involved. After you do it's hard to let go. Trust me. That's what happened to me. I thought I was in love with him. It took me months to get over him. To this day I still am not over him. Just be careful. You can get VERY hurt, Chal Link to post Share on other sites
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