steppero Posted November 23, 2016 Share Posted November 23, 2016 There is this chick at work, she is always pulling pranks on me, punching me, annoying me, other times she comes across as really quiet and private person. Don't get me wrong, i play along with her little pranks give it back as well. Her facebook status says in a relationship, but there are no pictures of them together, in fact none of this so called partner at all. She hardly ever mentions him at work. The question is if a woman is taken why do they act so inappropriate with another guy? Everyone who has seen her interactions with me tells me that its so obvious she likes me, however I have never asked her out simply because she is supposed to have a boyfriend. So I just put it down to one of these women who do it all because they like attention. Why do women play these BS games? Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted November 23, 2016 Share Posted November 23, 2016 Uh, call me old fashioned, but men are expected to make the 'obvious, forward, bold, etc.' move and ask a woman out. Women are supposed to show signs of interest (like she's doing with you) and hope the guy isn't clueless and has the courage to ask her out. She probably hasn't asked you out cuz forward women like me, get taken for granted when we step up and ask a guy out. So, IMO, step up and either ask her out or find out what her situation is. If you ask her out, keep it simple, just be like 'Wanna join me for coffee?' I mean you're both coworkers, it's natural to have lunch, coffee, etc. without it coming off as you dating each other...and, over coffee or not, simply ask "So what's your situation? Are you seeing anyone?" Again, an innocent question that doesn't equate you asking to date her...coworkers discuss their SOs all the time. You're welcome... Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 23, 2016 Share Posted November 23, 2016 The question is if a woman is taken why do they act so inappropriate with another guy? No, the question is, why are you thinking about it so much? She has a BF. Steer clear unless you want your life filled with drama and potentially bruises. Why do women play these BS games? For the same reasons that men do. Attention, fun, excitement, to start an affair, there are as many reasons as there are people. You won't do yourself any favours by making sweeping generalizations about one gender Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts