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As clear cut as i can put it, i wanna start dating soon when i get some steady income coming in.

 

But honestly I don't even know where to begin. Like where do i start? Dating sites? Meetups? No idea where i should go from here.

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Hmmm, a good question.

I quite like the family BBQ's, and functions.

Surprisingly, I found my wife, or more truthfully, my wife found me, in a night club.

Some of my friends, have gate crashed some functions. They get dressed really well, and mingle with others outside a reception centre or Hall.

 

 

As a younger geezer, I used to go with mates to beaches, and other popular places where many people hang out.

Just walk around, sit, what ever. As long as you look around for the one, and when you find something that peeks your senses, then "Attack" man, attack..

The worst that can happen, is you get knocked back.

Of course, you always lookout for those that carry mace.. Ouch..

 

 

One word of advise. DONT spend all your money.

Please put as much as you can away in a bank.

Better yet, give it to you parents to put away. This way, you CANT go and pull it out and spend it.

Your going to need money in the future, so don't spend it all on having fun.

 

 

In saying that, "Go Have Fun". Geez, what a contradiction :o.

 

 

Ted

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Everyone has been telling me to jump into online dating. I have tried OkCupid, Bumble, and Plenty of Fish with no lucks just lots of creeps who only want one thing...lol.

I'm trying out eHarmony for now and seeing what happens.

Other then that, living by the philosophy "when it's meant to happen it will" and hoping I meet someone IRL versus the internet. Go out and be social for sure, it's a good start!

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You need to start going out with friends, going to parties, get a job, join a club, start exercising in a busy park, go to family BBQs like some said before, and at some point your going to start meeting new people... And you're going to start being interested in someone after a while, at that point, just ask them out on a date.

 

But if you want to do it faster, then start joining online dating sites.

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afoolto no end

volunteer, coffee shops, just go out a lot, a shopping mall. They say a lot of people meet in the grocery store......

play a mixed sport, softball, volleyball.........sooner or later someone will bring their cousin or know someone ......

Just let it happen naturally.....

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volunteer, coffee shops, just go out a lot, a shopping mall. They say a lot of people meet in the grocery store......

play a mixed sport, softball, volleyball.........sooner or later someone will bring their cousin or know someone ......

Just let it happen naturally.....

 

Played Volleyball for 10 years (B grade). Man, I agree here, the women where, wooohoooo !.

 

 

Ted.

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