Bf going on dates and justified it by saying I treated him badly

[Peachii]

I'm actually staying at my bf house with his family, they take very good care of me. My bf say I'm treating him badly which I thinks is too exaggerated... I am just not into skinship and sex.. Recently he got to know his friend's friends, they happen to be a couple and after that broke up. Then he started to study together with her and I got very suspicious because they are from two different school, two different major (business and engineering) and studied for long hour (came home after 12am) . Initially he told me there was nothing going on and allowed me check his whatsapp. But honestly it was obvious that she was flirting with him and I thought he just enjoying the flirt only. He continued studying with her and they kept texting non stop I went to check his skype and I was caught red handed. He was really angry saying because I don't trust him and even got physical but we made up. And just a few day later after coming back from his studying session he was visibly upset, that's when he told me he went to watch movie with her after studying and she leaned on his shoulder and he leaned back and she held his hand for awhile.

[l8estnews]

So, what are you going to do? You know this isn't working.

 

Why are you staying with his family?

Do you have a home you can come back to?

 

This relationship ran its course. Save yourself from additional pain and let this go.

[Peachii]

He acted slightly guilty at first but became very defensive when I say he cheated on me. He blamed me for treating him badly ... He said he was confused as he have feelings for her and me and needed time to think. I thought he meant think but no he continued going on dates so that he can decide... So now I feel like some spare tyre waiting to be disposed, like some trash. Breaking up seems to be a better option but I don't have the courage as I've been living with him for 2years+ . Please advise.

[Peachii]

I'm 23 I am working full time but I'm not earning much as I'm still in training. I know I should but I am so scared

[Peachii]

So, what are you going to do? You know this isn't working.

 

Why are you staying with his family?

Do you have a home you can come back to?

 

This relationship ran its course. Save yourself from additional pain and let this go.

 

At the start I was very sticky and I wanted company everyday . I have a home but my family are having problems. And I have Guinea pigs here..