How do I get over my girlfriend having a three some behind my back???

[Friskyone4u]

Also there actually are some ppl who take the plunge like that. It doesn't ever seem to be particularly healthy but there are a lot of less than well-adjusted ppl out there. :/

 

now there's a true but understated statement. If you have decided to stay with this girl there is no advice that can help you.

 

Get your family and choice of friends straightened out as well.

[5x5]

Because your first time you're scared, nervous, don't know what to expect, you want to do it with someone you care about and trust, not get two guys to go to pound town the first time.

 

Not necessarily, my first sexual partner in 1989, was a 16 year old virgin, while I was a 17 year old virgin when we met as strangers at a party. She thought i had a pretty face, so she wanted to talk to me, then she asked me to kiss her. A couple of hours later we were having sex under a blanket, in a room with others until the sun came up.

[5x5]

I think the part that pisses me off is the fact she cheated AND lost her VIRGINITY in the process and that it was on her 18th Birthday ,right when she became of LEGAL AGE,and it happened on Valentines Day. As her boyfriend I just feel like I got robbed of so much, like a milestone, or I had my special moment (s) snatched from me.

 

Since her virginity belonged to her only, you certainly weren't robbed. That said if I were you I would dump her without any hesitation.

[JoeSmith357-1]

Calling BS on this, no one has a 3 some to pop their cherry...

 

Anyway, if it's real, dump this girl, she's obviously not relationship material, and beat your brothers ass

 

There is no question here, no coming back from this

[usa1ah]

First, something to ask yourself. Why would you stay with a girl that would lie and cheat on you?

 

Too add insult to it she did it with your younger brother and best friend.

 

She cares nothing for you or she would never have done this.

 

Find someone else.

[stillafool]

Personally I don't know how you can even look at her again, much less get over this. Dump her and do it fast. BTW, if you ever marry don't take your wife around your brother.

[JoeSmith357-1]

You have to ask yourself also, why was she not having sex with you, but banged 2 other dudes, one of which was your brother

 

If real, this is so messed up

[LexiCat29]

The answer to the initial question is so simple. You don't. You don't get over that. You dump her and move on. Immediately.

[LostOnes05]

Dude, that sucks. But you cant be serious about staying with her. Dump her like yesterday. Don't settle for that kind of crap from her or your brother. Thank your brother for showing you her true colors but I wouldn't talk to him after that unless it was absolutely necessary. You have to show people that stab you in the back that they are replaceable, especially a girlfriend.

 

Don't fall for the tears and the apologies from either. She did what she wanted and if you begin to accept stuff like that you'll be taking that kind of crap forever. And if it was my brother, I'd dare him to ever look me in the face again when talking to me. If he wants to stoop so low, he should look at the ground. Neither one of them are trustworthy and trust me it's better to be alone than among snakes.