Chen12 Posted December 2, 2016 Share Posted December 2, 2016 So my ex broke up with me 9 months ago and today I found myself thinking about him.... well not him specifically but how the relationship ended. If I am truly being honestly I don't miss him and am honestly happy the relationship ended. It was very unhealthy and I was coming undone mentally because of it but still I found myself shedding a few tears. When I think about it the hurt from the break up is still there. Of course its not as intense but it still hurts. And I remember everything so vividly; the things he said to me, the way he looked at me, the feelings of desperation, the tension in the air.. Even though he hurt me so much, I can't hate him and honestly wish the best him. When I think of him I just remember the last time I was over his place. We hung out and even talked sometime after that also but I find that it is very difficult to think about. I guess my point is that can anyone give me some advice on this? Some advice on how to get past a very painful break up. It weird because I no long er love him and even through what happened I never hated him but I can't get past what he did and the things he said to me. Its been nine months for goodness sake! I mean I didn't think about it everyday for 9 months. I haven't thought about him since around the breakup. So advice is very much needed. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Chen12 Posted December 3, 2016 Author Share Posted December 3, 2016 hello? Nobody has any advice for me? Link to post Share on other sites
Marco Valerio Posted December 3, 2016 Share Posted December 3, 2016 There's no much advice for this. With time vivid memories turn into shadows, and then, into fading memories. You just need time. Link to post Share on other sites
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